I am pissed at my boyfriend today so I am ignoring all of his phone calls... Am I being caddy or a ***** or something?
What happened is...
He is away at college and I am currently filling out applications to transfer to a new college. I asked him to take a look at my transfer essay when he had a chance and just let me know what he thinks. He did not look at it until 11:30 last night and when he did, he looked at it for 10 minutes, told me where he thought I should change stuff and then said "Is that it? I am really busy and I have to go", instead of working on it with me like I asked, I would totally understand him being busy except that he told me how he spent 2 hours earlier in the day showing his roommate how to give fellatio... And I was asking him to look at my essay ALL DAY since before he started his little workshop...
Am I wrong for being mad?
2007-09-12 04:55:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Maybe he has a little underlinig resentment that your leaving the college and moving on. Some people push their loved ones away so that the hurt will be easier. Have you asked him how he felt about you going to a new college. It's called self preservation, put up a brick wall around your emotions so you don't get hurt. I have a problem with this myself. Talk to him and hear his side of the story.
2007-09-12 07:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by wife_1st 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good is being mad gonna do? Grow up and be a man.. so he didn't have time to really look at it with you, he's in college to and has things to do.
2007-09-12 14:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋