i read the blogs and look at the albums of people i have a love-hate relationship with, people like ex's and people who were once friends. i can't help but do this regularly. it's even weirder because i don't bother looking at the blogs and albums of friends that are closer to me at the moment.
is this weird?
2007-09-12 02:16:04 · 12 answers · asked by blitzkrieg 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
unfortunately due to the way our minds are wired, negative or traumatic experiences and emotions always star brighter in our consciouness, consequently we tend to focus on them more also...my way of dealing with this, is when a negative or unhelpful thought or memory enters into my awareness/consciouness, I let it pass by without focus. this way it doesnt fill your awareness and you are not adversely effected by its nature
2007-09-12 02:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't tell us why you do this - what you are thinking during the process.
so without that information, an answer is more of a guess than analysis.
but I would have to say that the behavior seems to be that of someone who wants what she cannot have. And that once she gets something, she then increases interest in the next thing she does not have.
If that is the case, then yes, it is a bit weird.
2007-09-12 09:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Larry V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not i do that too, its just that your curious. Like if its an ex you wanna go look at his album or blog to see if he's writing about another girl or something, or if its a love-hate relationship thing maybe your gonna look and see if they are takling bad about you. Its not weird its curiosity
2007-09-12 09:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nekInx7DV0o#
2007-09-12 11:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all weird in some way. You may be more jealous of those you not like and curious as to what they up too. Kinda like Homeland Security watching honest Americans instead of those they should be concerned with. You probably would do better looking at those that are your friends to know more of their likes and dislikes and to have a more meaningful conversation with them. But, there is nothing weird of wanting to know what the enemy is up too. :-P
2007-09-12 09:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Snaglefritz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my yes, very, very wierd...You need help.
Just kidding, it is completely normal to be curious about things from your past and about what might have been. Just make time for your current friends as well. Also, get out and see and talk to your friends! Getting on the computer can, if you let it, take over your life, time-wise.
2007-09-12 09:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's human nature. Now I'm weird because I waist my time on the computer trying to find people stranger than me.
2007-09-12 09:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by austin j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not weird but maybe, you havent gone over it yet. try looking back at the previous relationships and learn what lessons you have to learn and move on to a better and meaningful life ahead
2007-09-12 09:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are having trouble letting go of the past? Or you won't to know if the people of your past are doing? Or maybe you still care for these people?
2007-09-12 09:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kia R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that aint weird if you are reading blogs that the people you know wrote... is it weird??
well i dont think so! :)
2007-09-12 09:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by dandlylion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋