I'm a 15 year old male, who's 5'7, and weighs 120 pounds. Up till now, I haven't had ONE girlfriend. Not even one. I have never had a first kiss, nor so much as shaken a girls hand. I have never touched a girl. (And I don't mean in a bad way). I have never touched one, at all.....Is this bad? Or is it perfectly fine.
2007-09-12 02:10:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm attracted to girls. I'm.......shy...and I live i a country where love is against the law.
2007-09-12 02:29:20 · update #1
You're a teeager with typical teenager feelings. The biggest problem is the unreasonably harsh laws of the country you're living in. Otherwise, you have nothing to worry about. Keep it cool, and take it one day at a time.
2007-09-12 13:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. Ok this is a girl so its advice coming from a gril. im on my best friends screenname. Anyways, Just to let you know; you are perfectly fine and you should save your first kiss for a girl you really truely love. Don't listen to what others tell you. Also if love is against the law.? where do u live? if u think you love someone and it is against the law you shouldnt stop loving that person!
2007-09-12 12:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cameron Bryan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey A.J.
I didn't even kiss a boy until I was 17. I was very shy and also didn't feel any need to rush into anything. I married the boy I kissed. : ) Love and anything to do with it has no time limit. When a person finds somebody to love, that is the right time.
Don't try to judge yourself according to what others are doing or saying, just be yourself and things will work out.
There is nothing wrong with you. Some of us just take longer to find what's right for us.
2007-09-12 09:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by Alright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O'man I've got some bad news to tell you dude....you're normal! lol! It's fine, you're fine, don't feel pressured or rushed if you aren't ready, then you're aren't ready. Relax, it'll happen! But if you are ready then get out there..there will be some failures as with everything in life, but with effort comes successes also. Either way you're not alone..everybody had to start somewhere @ sometime in their life. There's no set standard or rule on how and when it happens! Have fun and Good Luck to 'ya! G=ME
2007-09-12 10:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by G=ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay I have to say that I cheated on this one! I hate doing that I looked at all the other answers before I answered, because I was 'hoping' that I was right! I tend to sometimes be 'old fashioned' and I am only 27 so I checked sorry! but yeah to get to the point I agree with everyone else these things don't need to be rushed. I would say thought that all relationships with a girl don't need to be romantic so I would advise you to get a few lady friends just so you know how to relate to 'us'
2007-09-12 12:58:02 · answer #5 · answered by in His image 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now i know how old ya are babe, and I'm old enough to be your mum, lmao
But if you need advise I'm always happy to help babe.
You have to abide by your country's laws, just wait your time will come, i chat to an Egyptian hes alot older than you and still a virgin, its a way of life in alot of cultures and to be honest i think its a very Good and wise choice. I lost my virginity at age 14 and i was married at 18 , i was unhappy for years because i acted on my love. Its wise to wait babe.
*hugs* xxx
2007-09-13 15:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your perfectly okay. It will happen soon enough. I was the same way myself all them years ago. The best advice I can give you is to remember that the girls are just as shy about you as you are about them.
2007-09-12 09:16:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sirecoke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you got something against girls or you just a young man with other things on his mind.You're still young.You'll know when you ready.Hanging out with the boy will be the second thing on your mind.Now my question to you is:are you attracted to girls?
2007-09-12 09:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Babygirl S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people don't even get there first kiss intill like 21 ! and some people don't get girlfriends intill 22 ! so i wouldn't worrie keep looking ! Good Luck!
p.s those people that don't get there first kiss till 21 are some celebs!
2007-09-12 13:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
your're fine!! but all u need is a bit more confidence! girls love it but it doesn't matter if u aren't... the girl will come to you! look i have a shy boyfriend, i mean REALLY shy, I had to ask him! lol but it doesn't matter to me, there are still some girls out there who like shy boys!!! chin up!
2007-09-12 10:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋