Are you so scared of being alone?

Answer 1

alone at home? in a mall? well not really, i can be alone and not lonely. but if you're talking about alone for the rest of my life...yeah i'm a bit scared. because i'm a people person. i love having friends around me, or my loved ones around me. i just couldn't imagine my life being alone. and it makes it worst because i have a neighbor, a spinster. she recently had a heart attack and there's no one to bring her to the hospital. and now that she's home, there's no one to take care of her. i said she should be brought to the nursing home or she should get a care giver, but she wouldn't hear any of it. she asks anyone she sees to go change her diaper and it's awful...i wouldn't want that to happen to me. so am i scared of being alone...YES!

Answer 2

I'd be lying if I said no. At the moment I am alone in that I do not have a boyfriend. I fear being single for the rest of my life. Like most people, I would like to settle down and get married one day. But quite frankly I don't think the chances of that happening are high! With divorce and all, and with my habit of getting bored easily....

Answer 3

No, after spending my entire adult life married to a man that made me always feel alone. When I was younger it was the worst feeling in the world to me. I figured as long as I had someone "with" me I'd be okay. But as the years passed I finally realized at 29, that I was not alone. Through it all, I discovered I had the most valuable person of all...myself. Once I understood that I filed for divorce. I figured it is better to be single and have my options for a companion that loves and appreciates me than it is to be married and alone with no options at all. Just because we have someone by our side doesn't mean that everything is fine. It sometimes is just a cover for our fears. What scares me now is the thought...."what if I had never realized that?" My life would have been so empty.

Answer 4

scared is a strong word. I am not scared to be alone at home or anywhere for as long as the place is safe.

In life, being alone and not having someone to share your innermost thoughts with isn't scary but kinda lonely.

Answer 5

Well...i'm not scared of being alone, in fact i'm a bit used 2 it, i'm 14, but mostly i'll be alone in my home, as my parents r working n my sis is in hostel. But i do feel lonely n wishes someone was there beside me. At skool i hav few gud frnds so i'm not so lonely there....even if i'm alone also....never felt scared though. How abt u?

Answer 6

Yes i am i hate being alone everyone needs someone i get realy scared, of not being loved but a lot of people all ways feal like this.

Answer 7

I am scared to be alone when it is dark & there is a storm. I cried one night not too long ago when I was the only one home, the electricity was off, and there was a thunder & Lightning storm going on... call me a baby, but yeah, I was scared!

Answer 8

Yeah! Aren't you?
It's the unknown and the fear of never finding someone, the RIGHT one, again. Can there ever be a RIGHT one? What is the RIGHT one? And when do you get to that point in life that you DONT WANT/DONT NEED/DONT HAVE TO be alone?
P.S.
I have never seen anyone that was truly Happy BEING alone -except in the movies.

Answer 9

Alone for a few days...no. Alone without hubby for the rest of my life - yes! It scares me to think that if something were to happen to me I would be all alone. He is my best friend, my confidante, and my lover all rolled up into one. I can b*tch and whine to him all I want and he listens. He is my soul-mate.

Sorry probably more of an answer than you wanted. LOL

Answer 10

not for a little while, in fact i enjoy my solitude sometimes, people can get so annoying and hard to be with. but if u mean being alone, as in being lonely, and having no freinds or never having a bf/gf than yess i'm terrfied of that, i think it's one of my worste fears, ending up spended the rest of my life basicly alone, seems terrfying.