I never have, thank goodness, but I'm thinking that it would be one of the most painful and humiliating things a person could suffer.......and I really feel for anybody who has been through that : (
2007-09-12 00:48:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It only happened once and I thought I was going to die. Yes, it sucked.
2007-09-12 00:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Clearly you sound a bit too needy here. You rather him say ILY everyday and not really mean it each time than once every other week? Now not apologizing is a different issue. Could it be because he was never taught as a child to apologize each time he made a mistake growing up? My husband says sorry everytime, but he makes the same mistake over and over. I don't know if you rather want that. What I'm saying is that no husband is perfect and that surely he shows you in other ways that he loves you. There's a book out there that explains about how there are different kinds of people. One's that are auditory (that would be you- you want to hear a lot), one's that are so-called "feelings" people (use of the word "feeling"... that's you, too.... look at your writing please... so you are an auditory and feeling person),.... one's that are verbal (love to talk on the phone, love to talk, love to sweet talk people anywhere) and one's that are visual (talks about visual impressions a lot and is motivated by them). Which one is your hubby? Was there any indications that he was just that kind of a person before, but you thought you could change him? Does he cheat? Does he verbally abuse you? Does he physically abuse you? Does he emotionally abuse you on purpose? Does he try to turn you into someone you are not, just because he needs you to be a certain way? If the answers are all yes, then it's a no-brainer... get out of this marriage. If you can't answer yes to even one of them, then you should start thinking about maybe if he was asked these questions, he would say yes to at least one (verbal abuse). Apparently you think that he is mentally abusing you. Think again- is it him or are you doing it to yourself, because he is just not that kind of a person. To answer your last question. Yes, I knew of a couple, who never said I love you to each other in words, but they loved each other dearly. It was obvious. They were my mom and dad. Sorry isn't something we say in our native language either, unless you almost killed someone.
2016-04-04 16:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once and I got the response sorry but I am not ready for a serious relationship. So I said who said anything about serious I just want s**. I guess you are not the right person, bye, bye.
2007-09-12 00:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by butterflytam1970 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never. It's happened to me tho. Someone told me he loved me and I couldn't answer back, because I didn't love him. The worst part was that he repeated it again, like he thought I didn't hear him the first time. lol I would never say it first to begin with, just for that reason.
2007-09-12 00:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Zoey ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Never, although I have been in the reverse situation. It also feels horrible to break someone's heart also. What sucks is he stopped being my friend after I told him I just wanted to be friends.
2007-09-12 00:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by binreddy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm usually the ones that responds with that. Why lie to someone and lead them on? Thats cruel. I let them know then and there.
2007-09-12 00:55:54 · answer #6 · answered by Fulanito 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, he said he don't love me the way I want him to. We are still great friends, and I still love him with all my heart, and he loves me as a friend, and yes, it hurts to know that he don't love me the way I love him. I am going through it now, and I am not some young lovesick person, I am over 50 years old.
2007-09-12 00:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i was very tempted to say it to someone but something stopped me. i realised over the following week he was just after one thing,lol. it would have been so demoralising if i said it!
edit; i am talking about saying I LOVE YOU not the response!!!
2007-09-12 00:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio_queen_2003 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hasn't happened to me either.
But listen to this, my best friend once told this guy she liked, that she was in love with him, only to get the answer "Thank you".
If you think about it, that's even worse...I mean...Thank you for what???
2007-09-12 00:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Kicky 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No one has ever told me that. It would probably hurt, but love is a strong word.
2007-09-12 00:56:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I just said, Thank You but I can't say that yet.
2007-09-12 01:49:18 · answer #11 · answered by onherandoffher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋