When is the best time of the month to try to conceive?

Question

My boyfriend and I are desperately trying to get pregnant. Am I most fertile just before or after my period?
Are there any vitamins etc that I should take that might help?

Answer 1

Your best time is in between your periods. Start charting when your period starts and how long it lasts. You ovulate between one to two weeks after your period. That is obviously the best time as you need that egg in the right spot before it can be fertilized. You cannot get pregnant during your period as the thick lining that is created in your uterus (for implanting a fertilized egg) is dripping out and that is what your period is. If you don't have that, you don't have a place for the egg to lay and grow. Also, check your mucus. I know that sounds grosse but when your mucus is tacky or sticky, that is the best time.

I learned this from a family planning book and learned how to chart my cycles. I was doing it as a controception but just as I knew when NOT to have sex so I didn't get pregnant, it can work the opposite way if you DO want to get pregnant. Start charting. It is fun to chart together and he will know when you are ovulating also by looking at the chart. It is something you can do together. That doesn't seem very romantic but he will actually become more "in tune" with you and your body which can be very rewarding.

I would get married and plan the honeymoon around the best charted time and have a very erotic honeymoon. There is less hastle with raising children if you are married and the child deserves a couple as awesome as you two, knowing you will be together forever.

Answer 2

Middle of the month when you are most fertile. But I think that being tense has a lot to do with putting off the happy day. You must relax and stop 'trying'. If you 'try' and it doesn't work first time - which it probably won't - you tense up each further time you 'try', wondering what's wrong. Then, if it doesn't happen again, you start getting desperate and worry that you can't have children and you tense up even more. You end up in a vicious circle and that doesn't make for happy relationships. R E L A X. Take all the advice, take your vitamins etc, don't use birth control and just go with the flow. Don't even think about having a baby. It'll happen. You've already been given a lot of good answers here so read them all again and enjoy.

Answer 3

you should start having sex approx 2 weeks after you period finishes. Your most fertile time is the middle of your cycle. If your really desperate to get pregnant buy a ovulation kit (not that expensive) and it will tell you when your ovulating so you will know when to have sex. I bought one and was pregnant the first month of trying. You could also monitor your discharge. It usually increases when your ovulating and becomes thin to help the sperm along and looks like egg whites. You should also start taking folate and iron vitamins. there is a good one called elevit which has all the extra stuff we need but definatley take folate tablets now. You can get them from any chemist. Good luck and i hope you get pregnant soon!!

Answer 4

I would encourage you to use ovulation test strips to help you to know when exactly you ovulate in your cycle. I use Answer brand, 20 test strips for $20. Women ovulate at all different times. Generally speaking, women vulate about fourteen days before they expect to get their period. But, like I just said, every woman is different so the ovulation test strips can help tell you for sure when you are ovulating.

The best time to have sex is leading up to your ovulation. That way the sperm is there waiting for the egg when it is released. Sperm can live somewhere around 2-3 days while an egg only lives for about 1 day. So, if you wait until you ovulate to have sex, you don't give the sperm much time to find the egg before it is too late.

I would start taking prenatal vitamins. They do NOT help you get pregnant, but it is good to have the nuttrients a growing fetus needs from the moment of conception.

Good luck and lots of baby dust!!!

Answer 5

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infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues.
If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt).
two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate.
Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.

Answer 6

You are most fertile, when you ovulate, which would be the fourteen days after your period starts, so you could try that. When you DO get pregnant, folic acid is useful to take.

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Answer 7

The best month to conceive would be in July. That way, you aren't pregnant all summer, and when the baby is born, you don't need all those heavy winter clothes. My daugther was born in April and we loved it. Spring was just starting and we didn't have to have the big, bulky winter clothes.

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Answer 8

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Infertility is a condition defined as not being able to become pregnant after at least one year of unprotected, regular, well-timed intercourse. Women who suffer from multiple miscarriages may also be diagnosed as infertile. Infertility may be classified into two groups, primary and secondary infertility.

Answer 9

Any month is always the best time to conceive a beautiful child. You and your boyfriend will most definitely make awesome parents. Be careful conceive your future son or daughter and good luck.

Answer 10

the 14th 15th and 16th days after the first dy of your period are usualy the best days .you could buy a ovulation kit. you should be taking folic acid every day these will not help you get pregant but they will help you have a healthy baby .tell your boyfriend to wear loose boxers tight ones restrict his bodies balance also cut down on drink and smoking if you do.and any herbal pass times cut them out.try to relax and enjoy the love making i found they more i stressed the longer it took. best of luck and enjoy the practice.