I am Indian f 24 having a baby 3 months old. I feel my husband does not give me time. His parents and his sisters keeps creating misunderstanding between us and he believes only them. He loves me but does not care for me.
He is less educated, but very good at business. I am a post graduate. People say we are a mismatch. But I expect only basic love, care, time, respect thats all. Is that too much. Where does studies come into the picture?
We are in a joint family and he will never come out from his family for me. I tried to get seperated from him but every time I see my child I am reminded of him. I love him so much that I cant leave him also.
Anyways who will marry me, although I look good?
Is there any solution to my problem?
2007-09-12 00:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by Sweet.im4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
From the points you have told about your husband, any white woman will tell you "yes, you should divorce him".
But, Indian ethos do not say this !
From what you said about him, it seems he does not have any major vice, like drunkenness, womanising, home violence etc. He is only not yet surrendered to you as tollay as you would like him to be. His mother and sister are, as usual, playing their nuisance role.
I would advice you more patience and tact.
Never listen to other people who say you two are mis-match. You decide for yourself whether you really are.
2007-09-12 00:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by Bapi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a educated woman with very low self esteem you know you look good but on the other hand you say who would have me,you are fool of contradictions. You better get use to your life because it sounds like you are not going to do anything about it but complain to others. Hon it's up to you and only you,do you think you are the only woman that has been in a relationship like yours. If you ever want to be happy you will get out of that house and take care of yourself your a smart woman you can do it.
2007-09-12 00:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a solution.. there is a solution for everything in life but is up to you, if you can't leave your husband then your going to have to learn to love him or fight fire with fire, don't take crap from no one his meddling family seem to be the number one problem between you, stay away from them refuse to see them, he can't make you.. try to keep your married life private away from them, he can see them all he wants you stay away.. counseling will help maybe suggest to him that you need to see a marriage counselor,but what ever you do don't ever love that man more than you love your self. If your not happy let it go don't forget you already have the best part of him your child.. good luck.
2007-09-12 00:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say divorce, if it is me in your shoes.
But I think this will heavily depend on your culture.
Talk to your husband, tell him how you feel, good communication is the basic for a relationship.
2007-09-12 00:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you divorce i will marry you...just contact me..
2007-09-12 00:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋