2007-09-11 21:35:46 · 7 answers · asked by hyphyscwifey 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
in relationships, husband and wife specifically.
2007-09-11 21:36:15 · update #1
No, you just become bitter and twisted.
2007-09-11 21:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes one can do so if one forgives, one may never forget, but one can forgive. Thats what a good hearted person would do. Problem is though there are allot of people who have a hatred heart and they cannot change no matter what. I think one should try putting the other person who has done wrong in the other shoes to show them what it feels like to be hurt or crossed. If they had any remorse for doing wrong they would show it. Read the signs and get a little background knowledge from others to back up and mishaps from the past. Like I say some never change or even want to. When they admit it before you find out, thats a good sign of guilt and rehabilitation.
2007-09-12 06:23:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both truly work at it, you can. If you both aren't giving 100% of yourself to the other, you are going to stumble all along the way. When you become more concerned about the other person's happiness instead of your own, you will start finding happiness within yourself. Learn to do little things to put that spark back in your marriage and every day, let your spouse know how much you love and cherish them, then work to prove it through your actions.
http://www.theromantic.com/stories/stories.htm
http://www.lovingyou.com/content/ideas/list/
2007-09-12 05:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes.if you are willing to try and still have a desire to love and be with the person.If its cheating it may take a very long time.some people cant get over that kind of thing by simply refusing to try.follow the advice of your heart not your head or gut ,they are usually wrong.
2007-09-12 04:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Christina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will stick my neck out and say no, there is that 'something' blocking the path, psychological I think.
2007-09-12 05:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the issue at the time ! but for core issues like infidelity I doubt it - the memory lingers and will colour your thinking like it or not :(
2007-09-12 04:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With any mental manipulations, it will not be easy.
Try meditation coupled with Yoga. You will be
surprised by its power.
2007-09-12 06:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋