every argument i have with a friend of mine leaves me resentful. she ends up crying and i end up putting aside my irritations because i feel bad. however, i just end up feeling even more mad the next time something happens and the tears reappear. i also dislike the "thanks for forgiving me" gifts. i definitely know i'm not as nice to her as she is to me. is it better to just end it?
2007-09-11 17:52:31 · 9 answers · asked by dylan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes, you probably don't really like her.
2007-09-11 17:55:22 · answer #1 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can keep pretending if u like, but if u were really her friend, u would care a lot more. she must be doing some pretty horrible things if she feels she needs to give u " thanks 4 forgiving me gifts." sounds like there are some other issues u need to take care of. to answer ur question, no, u can't base a friendship on guilt. a real friendship is based on love, trust and understanding.
2007-09-11 18:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by j.c. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop arguing with each other. If you already know what it does between you two, then why keep it up? You both should feel bad about the way you both act. You both need to grow up and act like two people who really care for each other.
If you don't want any more gifts, then STOP the arguing. If you two just can't get along, then maybe you two just need to stay away from each other for awhile. It is really up to you. You want to be treated nicely, then treat her nicely. Treat others like you would want to be treated.
2007-09-11 18:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship can be based on guilt if you let it. But that is obviously not a true friendship.
2007-09-11 18:10:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got you bouncing like a yoyo. find some one that doesn't ack like a spoiled child. This type of person , doesn't change much with age.
2007-09-11 17:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow maybe you should tell her how you feel and say that you fell a bit manupulated...because crying could be a "thing" you know..But yea you shouldnt have a friend because of guilt.
2007-09-11 17:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by mara2wild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't seem like the friendship is working out for either one of you, i'd end it.
2007-09-11 17:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by catherine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah find some mean friends like u!
2007-09-11 17:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by GORGEOUS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a CONTROL FREAK....She may not even realize it....STAY AWAY FROM HERE...
SHE WILL GIVE YOU ONLY HEARTACHE..
GLEN
2007-09-11 18:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by Glen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋