We been seperated for only two weeks and I thought maybe he would change and get a job so he rescue our marriage.
I found out he's been talking to new girls and telling them lies like "Im trying to get back on my feet so give me a chance and ill prove myself" or " I have pictures on my cell phone call me or give your number" which is really his little brother cellphone he dosent own a cell phone.
He tells girl that he has all this money and owns all these things when really he dosent even have a car, house not even food for his own dog. Now I know that I wont ever take him back but is there any chances of him changing .... Also he hasnt called to see about his daughter or to see if she needs milk or anything. Why do yall think hes like that is it true that a cheater is always going to be a cheater hes done this before !!
2007-09-11 17:45:02 · 11 answers · asked by Raw1987 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not believe once a cheater always a cheater for everyone. It is a persons character and morals and values that will show if this is the case.
I do feel he is being selfish and self-absorbed - he will show you in his every word and action should he wish to change his ways; not make you go through all of this. When you hurt someone you truly love, you will do all you can to make up for it and earn the trust and belief back. He is not showing signs of being remorseful or caring for much but himself, from what you say. He is lying to make himself look like some 'great catch' and he is only fooling himself.
You must take care of yourself and your child; he is responsible for his own actions and he may soon lose what should mean the most to him in life, you and his family.
2007-09-12 06:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do yall think hes like that is it true that a cheater is always going to be a cheater hes done this before !!
That is a true statement to a point. It can turn out to be true that "always a cheater" but it can also turn out to be "Not always a cheater but im goin to hurt you that many times until I stop". I dont think either is good.
2007-09-11 18:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't change until he falls flat on his face, alone. And maybe not then. Sounds like he is looking for someone to rescue HIM!
It sounds like you were hoping for a change and I'm sorry that it didn't happen. Make sure your legal situation is taken care of so that when he does get a job he can pay support for your child. I feel sorry for the poor girls he's trying to sucker in, but worse for you because you care for him and his child has an irresponsible con artist for a father. Do your best to move on and make a successful life for you and your daughter!
2007-09-11 18:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You answered your own question??? He did this before... Tell me is this how you got him? If so, sweetie, you need to move on and stop wondering about him changing. He is a cheat and won't change. Take your daughter and make a life for you and her, never mind about him. He's already moved on to a bigger and better feild of nieve woman.
2007-09-11 18:06:33 · answer #4 · answered by Petunia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you have a legal separation so that he can't take off with all the money and things that have financial worth and leave you with nothing but the bills. He sounds like the type who would do just that.
2007-09-11 18:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahahaha just keep laughing and smiling about how childish he is. Look.........he's doing and saying these things for attention and to feel better. Just let it go and move on. Take care of your buisness and move on. In this case it sounds like you should cut your losses and move on the an adult. Good Luck
2007-09-11 18:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are correct in divorcing him. If he really loved you he'd be bending over backwards to show remorse and mend his behavior. The fact that his daughter is so unimportant to him should be your final answer. You will be so happy in the future that you made the right decision now.
2007-09-11 17:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Boy don't have his oun phone? Get this fool and total loser out of your world.
He's a bum, lose him and don't make that mistake again
2007-09-11 18:06:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a chump and you are better off without him. What was your question?
2007-09-12 01:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does not love you. Don't cry over him, he's not worth it.
2007-09-11 18:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋