We want to do help to somebody, we can do but we will not going to do, Why?

Question

This also be face in some important situations.

Answer 1

You are right, sometimes we want to help someone but we cant help them, There are many reasons why we cant help them, reasons such as our own ego, society, financial matter , family problem.

This kind of situation happens with everyone in his life but the best way to do is just do what you feel right. don't think what other people would think if you would do that. sometimes it happens that your friend any relative need financial help but you can't to that becuase you are not financial strong to help ohters but that time what you can do is help them by your simpothy. go to them and tell them what they could do to get out of this situation.

see, this world is too selfish, they don't care bout others but sometimes if you are doing something good for others which may not like but still they too have soft corner in their heart and they do undestand that whatever you are doing is wrong. you are doing something which they can't do becaue of their ego.

so the summary of this whole topic is do whatever your mind and heart says., don't think about others. if you feel somethig good then do it. I hope this would help you.

Answer 2

This is not the case with everybody , friend. A large number of people do help , in whatever way they can. As the name suggests , if you are an Indian you will know that across the length and breadth of the vast country educational institutions , hospitals, temples, schools , orphanges , old people`s homes are there . Thes e have come up only because people help other people.

There is a small set of selffish people who donot help at all. Leave them

In between there is a st of people who want to help but donot. This is due to many reasons.
1. They think what help they can give is TOO small and they feel ashamed to do that.
2. They feel that thinking to help itself is a big thing and they need not.
3. Though they want to help they immediately they think of another want in their lives ( a second car , a second home etc.) . They change their mind.
4Some people cannot decide whether the receiver of the help is worthy of help.

Answer 3

Yes thats right, sometimes we need to control ourselves, why? because in extending your help to others we should be sensitive enough if he or she really needs help. One of my friend told me one day, she ask for the help of her parent but the parent denied it. The reason is she is old enough to solve her problem. The good thing is she solve her problem by herself. Some people might see it as a rude but things went right because she prove to herself that she can do things without the help of others. She become more stronger and she learned that she can manage whatever problem and trials may come to her life.

Answer 4

Usually the thing that troubles us is the "we" itself.
If we merge into the situation, unmindful of any 'residual' effect of our desire to help, then action would simply pour out forth out of us, leaving no doubt, choice etc about the consequences, results, rewards etc .
(There is a saying 'there is no limit to what we can do, if we do not care who gets the credit')

Answer 5

helping somebody is the best thing one can do. however we must be careful.helping everyone,each time is not good. we might develop a personality to whom everyone comes with the smallest of all things. there is a possibility that the person doen't want our help at all.

Answer 6

its the grammer of of life

practically it misjoins right words into meaningless clutters an this becomes a question

so dont bother much about grammer m just dare doing the right ful things within u r limits

all the best

Answer 7

Yup. Maybe we'll b affected in a negative manner or we're jus afraid

Answer 8

I think at that time i was help less due to some reason , other wise we should help every one as possible as

Answer 9

I think I might understand what you mean.I agree!When there is so much to do to help we don't,and there is so much we can do to help.I think its a matter of learning how to take action on whatever it is we can give help!

Answer 10

we must now show english the gateway out to it's father land.it's becoming a nuissance. let's denounce english and embrace our mother tongue.