I always make sure to go before sex but lately we've had to stop in the middle of everything so I can go again - but I only have to go a tiny little bit. Is this normal? It kinda ruins the mood to stop in the middle - any advise or suggestions? My husband is amazing and is completely understanding - but I feel bad.
2007-09-11 16:39:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It doesnt matter what i do, I always seem to have to go when we're having sex. I go before, and after, but it never fails I always have to go in the middle of sex too. I always felt bad about having to stop and then start again, but my like your husband, is very understanding. You can try other positions, but I still haven't found one that makes a difference. Off subject, I also noticed this happens with car rides as well. It doesnt matter if I just went before we left, the minute we get in the car I have to go. One Saturday we were going around to different stores shopping and I had to go pee in every single one of them when we got there. :) Does make me feel better someone out there is going through the same thing though.
2007-09-11 19:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sharpie211 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I always have to pee right after sex, and I'm not even pregnant!
Your need to urinate is probably due to two factors: the growing size of your baby (you ARE six months now, and entering your third trimester soon) and the angle at which your husband's penis is entering you.
Both are putting extra pressure on your bladder; you could try changing sexual positions if there is something that eases the pressure and that you are both comfortable with. But otherwise, you might have to continue as you are for the next few months.
2007-09-11 16:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Jules 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the previous answer. Stopping may 'ruin the mood' but going during would DESTROY the mood!!
Baby could be pressing on your bladder. Just to be sure, though, check with your doc to see if you have a urinary tract infection. I had them SO often with all of mine!!
(If you don't have a doc - or no insurance and doc is costly, the pharmacy sometimes has home tests that are usually accurate. I did that to save some cash! But if you've got insurance that'll cover it, GO IN!! a UTI can cause problems if left untreated including premature birth)
2007-09-11 16:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by elizabethwalters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me. It's normal that far along in your pregnancy due to the baby resting on your bladder. Your husband should be understanding. Don't stop drinking before having sex just to keep from having to go to the bathroom. You need to stay hydrated. Things will get back to normal after you have the baby. Good luck.
2007-09-11 16:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by lnlyheart123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. You do have a baby pressuring on your bladder. That's not unusual. Hello! Your husband is amazing??? You're the one carrying the child, having a baby pressed against your bladder, having to go to the bathroom, etc. Why is he the amazing one? You have nothing to feel bad for... that's life as a mature woman who's about to be a mom.
2007-09-11 16:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, you are just running out of room in your body, and when you have sex it's putting extra pressure on your bladder. Eventually you probably won't be able to have sex without great discomfort. Then you'll have the baby and you still won't be able to have sex until you're healed up. Your husband should consider himself lucky that you're willing to keep trying to have sex at all at 6 months pg.
2007-09-11 16:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Suburban Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the exact same problem. I just made sure to go right before and realize that just because it feels like you have to go you don't necessarily need to. It's just that you already have baby sitting on your bladder and then you're introducing another thing that puts pressure on your bladder, it's going to feel that way. There are certain positions that are worse than others. I always find that doggie always put way too much pressure on my bladder.
2007-09-11 16:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by xraydri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.... i comprehend the sensation of attempting to concieve and not getting any advantageous outcomes. have you ever been pregnant? Are you charting your ovaluation days? i comprehend that the 1st time I have been given pregnant I wasn't questioning approximately it. i grow to be in simple terms making like to my guy and not questioning approximately attempting to get pregnant even nonetheless i had to. I misplaced that infant and it nonetheless hurts, yet i'm happy to comprehend that i can concieve, it in simple terms takes some people a lil' longer than others. As for the peeping element perhaps you need to pass to the bathing room formerly intercourse. I additionally heard that someimes during intercourse we get the urge to pee, yet we actually do no longer ought to, this is in simple terms an illustration telling us we are approximately to have an orgasm. whilst your finished having intercourse, do you pee afterwards or does the urge in simple terms pass away?
2016-11-15 00:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like I have to urinate every 5 minutes all day no matter what. Seems no matter what position I'm in, I always feel pressure on my bladder. Just ask your husband to keep actual penetration short so you don't get uncomfortable.
2007-09-11 16:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa and Chloe's Mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say it is normal, but i mena what can we do...its nature you know, it not intentional, the babies simply sitting on your bladder thats all, and I beleive the penatration makes it even more of an urge to go to the bathroom...I dont thinkt theres much you can do about that but deal with it, perhaps it'll get better sooner then you think..im 37 weeks and pee like every 10 minutes...so you could imagine my situation, yourhusband understands so dont worry to much about it...
2007-09-11 16:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋