ohhk..so, i started school last monday.
i absolutly cannot STAND this school and the people, they always turn their backs on my for their friends they already know. i'm new to this school, and i'm quite shy - they don't have any clubs and all they have is soccer and i don't want to do that.
it's like, every evening i cry because thinking of tommorow and going to school just makes me feel like crapp and i feel horrible about the next day and i can't stop thinking about it...
i'm pretty pathetic lol xD
and we're going on this trip to this dumb farm on monday for 4 and a half days - and i'm NO GOOD with being away from home with a bunch of strangers that i don't want to be friends with. I might be transferring soon, but idk, the waiting list for this school is kinda long. so, right now i hate where i am hahaa..i feel like i could just jump out a window.
any tips on making time fly by? x(
2007-09-11 14:39:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Homework Help
reading books helps me pass the time
try that!
2007-09-11 14:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by sweaty teddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sweet heart I feel for you! I say don't go on the trip myself see if your parents would mind you staying home. If not then they can not make you go on this trip. I mean it might be good because it will give you a chance to get to know others better that are in your school. You know, I feel for you because you are shy. I had a lot of friends in high school that were girls. several of them were shy, when I first met them I thought they were stuck up B***hes. It was because they were pretty, and they just never talked to others much. It turns out they were great people and very funny and nice. Heck the added bonus was I was friends with some very, very good looking girls! =) I thought they were rude and stuck up. That was not it at all, they were just shy, and didn't know what to say or anything. Chances are you being shy may make people feel that you are not that friendly and you think you are as we use to say "all that". It is not your fault I am just telling you how other people may be seeing you. You need to be a little more outgoing. Say hello and talk with them. The reason they go for their friends is because it is a safe zone for them, they already know then and feel more comfortable around them. You just have to be nice, have a since of humor and talk to them. In a little they will warm up to you. They just have to get to know you and the only way that will happen is if you open up some and talk to them. That's why I say it may not be a bad idea to go on this trip. It will give you a chance to get to be around and know some of these people and them a chance to know you. Smile and act friendly, that will make them feel more comfortable around you. If you act upset, and shy people may be thinking that you are that way because you think you are better than them, you know kinda snooty. I know it's bad to judge people like that until you get to know them but we all do. Just hang in there and try to act like you are having fun and happy to be there, smile and talk to people some. That is the best thing I can tell you to do. Good luck!! =)
2007-09-11 15:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The field trip sounds like a great occasion to make friends. Start by just smiling at people, they will smile back and already you will feel better. Conversation is next. Find people that are not already involved with their own friends -- you KNOW that there are other people that are shy same as you.
2007-09-11 14:46:15 · answer #3 · answered by TurtleFromQuebec 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well when i was in high school i did not have many friends but i was able to meet one girl by simply noticing that she was alone to she sat alone and was shy so one day i asked to sit at her table she said yes and i talked to her just simply things. the next day i found her again and after that we became good friends. you don't have to say much you ask to sit and ask simple questions small talk can turn into a friendship. Am not an outgoing person either but some times you have to step out of your norm to meet new people.
2007-09-11 14:50:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He basically thinks that it will make the different boys choose to be acquaintances with him, yet basically snigger it off and act such as you're better than him and he will end by way of fact he will experience dumb. in case you are able to, stay with your friends as much as attainable by way of fact it is way much less possibly that he will say something if he's outnumbered. And if he does carry on and you're acquaintances are around, then before enable your friends understand approximately him and that they'll decrease back you up.
2016-10-20 00:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be shy..if you are new there then its not gonna be weird to anyone if you initiate the conversation...they dont know that u are shy they just think thats how you are..outgoing....and even tho you have been shy for the first little while...everyone is like that no matter how outgoing they are...so just give it a shot to start a convo...that doesnt mean they wont talk..they just dont know u yet
2007-09-11 14:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by baller 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy? u need 2 erase that word from ur vocabulary! meet ONE friend on this trip, there are ALWAYS other *shy* person, make that ONE friend, and then she'll introduce u 2 the rest of her friends. TRY IT!!! shy, wait, is that even a word? i don't think so!
2007-09-11 14:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by Allie (HBKF) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im exactly the same way so i look for people who are by themselves and look like theyre in the same situation and i try to befriend them =)
2007-09-11 14:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by cx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i went through what your goin through you just gotta face life as it comes it may be hard but things will work out
2007-09-11 14:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by i know it all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone and find someone who likes u. a friend isn't a friend if they turn their back on u.
2007-09-11 14:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jarrett G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋