Do you do it just for the money or were there other reasons?
When you're talking to the "customers", are you truthful about things in your life (such as school, hobbies, etc) or is it all made up stories?
Do you ever feel a personal connection toward the "customers" or are you just going through the motions? Do you actually care about them enjoying what you do or is it just about getting their money?
Do you ever get offended or hurt when "customers" treat you like "objects"?
Do you ever notice and/or appreciate when "customers" treat you like a person? Do you see it as sincerity or just trying to get something out of you?
Are you ever aroused or turned on by what you do?
Have you (or would you) ever dated someone you met as a "customer" at work?
How do you react when/if a "customer" recognizes you in the real world? Would you want them to even acknowledge where they've seen you?
Just some things I'm curious about; I appreciate any honest answers.
2007-09-11 14:06:30 · 8 answers · asked by Justin H 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It is usually just for the money. Sorry. Some of the girls will make up lots of stories, but some of them are actually genuine. It is a big ego boost, not a big turn on. I did have some customers that I was truly friendly with and like to talk to. I never dated a customer. I would smile at a customer in public and leave it alone, some of them really dont recognize the girl.
2007-09-11 14:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by T I 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you think that we are not? Why would anyone think that "Strippers, Dancers or Entertainers" are not human beings? With real emotions and feelings? If you were at work and someone struck up conversation with you , would you be honest? Would you just treat them as a customer? If they were mean to you or said something hurtful or offensive would you be offended? Do you get Aroused or Turned on at work? Isn't it usually any company policy not to date within the office personnel? well same goes in the clubs?
2007-09-16 21:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by Hard Core Dance Poles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a buddy that fell head-over-heels with a stripper...he had the exact same questions...he'd go in and drop an few hundred on her a few nights a week. She shared her "real name" and all sorts of details about her personal life...kept him coming back for a month or so....they set up a date....and she never showed...when he asked the manager...he said she had moved on....btw....with all of his cash!
2007-09-19 11:48:00 · answer #3 · answered by o2bupsidown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am none of the above but look forward to seeing what type of answers that you receive. The sterotype for people in these professions is that they come from bad homes, they are on drugs, uneducated or may not be capable of getting a better job. But who really knows unless you are there. Maybe they can explain it better.
2007-09-11 14:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by BR 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-10 10:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband was a male stripper before we married. He said he did it for a couple of months for some extra money and for some kicks. He drank allot before he "worked". He said he was not a way of life for him, just a stunt.
2007-09-11 14:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like someone went to strip club and has a crush on one of the girls. You naughty boy!
2007-09-19 08:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i use to be male stripper.
2007-09-11 14:21:53 · answer #8 · answered by joseph 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋