What things/attributes attract you to a man?
2007-09-11 13:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by mista mista 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Initially I might be attracted to his looks, but to hold my interest he would have to be intelligent (or at least be open to learning new things and having "deep" conversations), passionate, kind, honest, spiritual, sociable, sensitive, expressive, open-minded, sexual, liberal, emotionally stable and secure, compassionate, non-judgmental, creative, humble (but confident), loving, trustworthy and loyal. That's my idea of an "ideal man." I'd like to be with someone I can be friends with (not just lovers)...someone I'm compatible with in the areas I think are important...opposites may initially attract, but for me, those relationships never work out in the long run. I want someone who is a kindred spirit.
Tall order, I know...lol....! But after the failure of a ten year long marriage, I've decided that If I want to be with a man long-term, he's got to have those traits....if not, I'd be happier being single!
2007-09-11 14:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My guy attracted me (before I met him in person) since he was: articulate, funny, intelligent, down-to-earth, assertive, mature, willing to be silly, sensual, and extroverted.
2007-09-12 23:40:12 · answer #2 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kindness, consideration, intellect and a sense of humour.
2007-09-11 23:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A spark, something different, loving discord, passion and playfulness.
2007-09-11 20:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kupkayek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendly, nice smile, good at conversations/intelligent. Above all kindness.
2007-09-11 20:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small brain, Large penis... HUGE wallet!!
2007-09-12 23:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by jennyg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋