I was visiting a temple in Korea and I liked a guy there and went to visit several times afters. I liked a guy that I saw at an airport while we were waiting for a flight. I liked a guy that worked at a hotel that I was staying at for business. In the end, I always leave and then soon afters, I outgrow these guys b/c I venture on new experiences & travels and their lives seem so dull, mundane and routine. Is there something wrong w/me?
2007-09-11 11:27:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You answered your own question. You're a captive of the "first impression" syndrome.....in that most people like to put out a good "first impression" and when you're traveling, most guys you meet haven't yet become dull and mundane. There's nothing wrong with you, especially if you build a career involving traveling. Have fun!
2007-09-11 11:39:03 · answer #1 · answered by peacetrain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, whether there's something wrong with you or not really comes down to your own happiness with your choices and your attractions. If your romantic choices stress you out and make you unhappy, and if you constantly long for more permanent companionship, perhaps you should rethink your attractions. Otherwise, maybe this is a time for you to simply travel and keep things casual. You could be at a point where exploring yourself is more important than fully exploring another person. Maybe, through these brief encounters and attractions, you are discovering who you really are, what you really like. I think when the times comes, you will know you are ready to settle down, and your attractions will change.
2007-09-11 11:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kinz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can get lonely when you travel.. thus, meeting new people sparks certain chemicals in your brain, to feel attraction. The sexual variety is exciting too... however, you outgrow these people naturally because something new comes along and gets you excited all over again. No, i do not think there is anything wrong with you, however, you are just probably still in search of the ONE... have fun on your travels by the way...
2007-09-11 11:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by MayaMC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have followed the same pattern and have come to realize that these guys were 'safe' because in all likelihood I would
never see them again so I could do as I wanted when in their company. WhenI start up with someone in my own social circle at home the expectations and interest everyone else has in the relationship freaks me out - way too much pressure.
2007-09-18 07:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your defences are down when you are travelling, it is a why not mentality, with the back up of a security blanket called I am leaving soon if this isn't the one.
Plus you might be subconsciously thinking is there something better around the corner ?
2007-09-11 11:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i'm getting it. The sleepy horse is incredibly a crimson herring. and because its a crimson herring its no longer a mountain, its the sea. and because its the sea, there is this concern of sharks. Bankers and legal experts could be like sharks. tremendously very own loan sharks or henchmen for the bankers. so because it particularly is it. i would not go with to fulfill some henchmen out on a chilly night in the mountains amassing for some very own loan shark whilst my horsy is fallen asleep.
2016-12-13 06:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you don't want to commit and this is a more exciting way of dating for you.
2007-09-19 10:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tiger Lilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋