My son father continues to contact me after he has had several restraining orders issued. He has been to domestic violence classes and has had to do community service. He has been arrested in court after I showed the city attorney an e-mail where he wanted me to change the story about how he choked me in front of our 6 year old son. The police has made it clear to him that if he wants to be involved with his son he must go to family court. He recently showed up to my sons basketball scrimage. He has another son who was enrolled at the same park. He claims that he didnt know but my son told me about how his brother was on the same team and I would think that his 7 year old would have mentioned to him how his brother was playing. I had my 12 year old go to the scrimmage and he spoke with my 12 year old and then spoke to my 6 year old. My son was really excited to see him and wants to see him but I will not do anything without courts being involved.
2007-09-11 10:41:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Then dont do anything. Your sons may be a little disappointed now but that is not worth the possibility of what he might do were you to ease up the restraining order. And if you see him again call the police. He cant show up at the scrimmage if you have a restraining order, and call the police every time he tries to violate the order.
2007-09-11 10:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by darkestsith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kind of all over the place, here. What are you trying to do? You should have called the police and had him arrested the first time he contacted you in violation of that order!
If he violates a restraining order, call the police and they have to arrest him. If you want him to take you seriously at all, you need to lay down the law and not allow him to violate the order. If you want your son to be able to see him, then get the order modified.
2007-09-11 10:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has filed the order she shouldn't be in trouble if she chooses to break it--but she's making a huge mistake if she does. The restraining order was put into effect to protect her from this guy. The court system will not take her seriously if she intentionally puts herself in position to be near him.
2016-05-17 08:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first you did not really ask a question here. So I'll take a little stab at what you have said. You are wise for getting the order. However, you need to call the police EVERY TIME he violates the order.
2007-09-11 10:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by davidmi711 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋