Why is it that people who have real serious problems seem to be living life better than those who don't have serious problems? I'm not saying the people with the serious problems should dwell on their problems but what gives them the courage to make it? I'm the person who doesn't have the serious problems but I always feel like I can't get anything right. I always feel like there's something standing in my way.
2007-09-11 10:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I believe that the key answer to your question lies with the word "seem" in your statement.
All people have problems, of some sort. The only difference is that some people are good at masking their problems and make it "SEEM" like they are have a better life. While the reality might just be quite opposite.
I seem to agree with what you are saying as I seem to also fit the shoe that you have described in that it feels like there's something standing in my way! BUT, perhaps whats standing in my way is just what I seem to think of others.
POINT:
Live your life to the fullest and have no regrets... You have one life, so 100% is all you can afford to give.
2007-09-11 10:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making excuses for your self to not do anything more, or push yourself to be better than you're doing now. Successful people keep pushing themselves, and get up again and again after each fall. They know that they HAVE to keep trying, learning from their mistakes, and practising over and over. The courage to do so can stem from many outlets, but the biggest reason they succeed is simply because THEY REFUSE TO STOP TRYING.
2007-09-11 13:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Many people hide their problems and they r so good at dealing with them n they never show you that there is something out of control or abnormal , so that's why you see yourself as unlucky or not good enough .
As you may heard before : Nobody is perfect .That's true because whether they show it or not everyone has a problem with one kind or another.
have fun.
2007-09-11 11:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dejla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Queen, I don't know but I understand your emotions completely. Right now, I'm trying to figure out how to get out of Thanksgiving plans with 14 family members. This year they all want to rent a beach house for four days and have family fun. But, I know I won't. Many of them have overcome illness, joblessness, problems with their kids... but they're all on their feet, together , and cheerful. I've had none of those problems, but I have nothing positive to offer for my existence.I've given up on those same good things they have to come my way,too, and really, it's hard to share in their joy. I know that's shallow of me, too. Crappy feeling alright. You nailed it.
2007-09-11 10:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:26:36 · answer #5 · answered by hodgkiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god.you dont have any problem because you never be in IRAN.
2007-09-11 10:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by payman has lost his religion 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋