2007-09-11 08:22:57 · 12 answers · asked by Shelley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would want to relive our lives, but that we were both 25 years younger, still as in love as we are now. Thereby, spending 25 additional years with her.
2007-09-11 08:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That she not criticize me constantly and appreciate the things I do, do around the house. She always starts the day out in a fight. I'd also change the fact that she's even in the house.
2007-09-11 17:33:44 · answer #2 · answered by I'm all yours 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is really insensitive. We had a talk about it last weekend, but not about something he said to me. He said he was talking to his cousin about his cousin's experience of seeing his dad beat his mom as a kid (he's 31 now and it still bothers him). My husband told him "what are you gonna do about it? Get over it." He said his cousing was just looking for sympathy. He says this about everyone who is upset about something, even though I spent numerous nights up til 6 am with my husband talking about his combat experiences and his dad (absent father situation) until he was almost 30. I said, "every notice how everyone else is just looking for sympathy, but your problems are the only ones that are very real and you're not looking for sympathy?" He said, "well, he wouldn't listen to anything I said". I said, "well, you don't either. sometimes people don't want you to fix things for them, they just need someone to listen and care, to vent". Then, I saw the little "oh" light come on in his head. He said, "I'm not really the best person to talk to am I?"
2007-09-11 15:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He'd take better care of himself. He works too much, eats WAY too much junk / fried foods and drinks WAY too much pop (especially Mountain Dew), and has trouble breathing. Why? Because I'd like us both to be healthy enough to enjoy our retirement, once we are old enough to retire! (Which is at least another 20 years from now!)
2007-09-11 15:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Romans 8:28 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would make him definately more compassionate. He needs to realize that I have feelings and emotions too. Ones like needed to be held, and wanting to cuddle, those types of things. It's hard when your hubby doesn't show you affection.
2007-09-11 16:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi E 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her spending. She is always over spending, which causes alot of stress on our relationship. She also, cant balance a checkbook!! , even though, i've showed her how to do it, many times.
2007-09-11 15:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by jokat71 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He would be a multi-million dollar lottery winner. Why? So he could quit his job and we could travel the world and do what we want all day long. ;)
2007-09-11 15:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My lady is nearly perfect, she's my best friend,lover,buddy!! but I'd definatley increase her sex drive!! I've adjusted to her lack of need, enjoying her love!! Yup SEX DRIVE
2007-09-11 15:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
MmMmMmMmMm...the fact that he has arthritis in his back, I hate haveing to see him go through all that pain :o(
2007-09-11 16:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Guardian W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that he would always tell me the truth before i have to get it out of him
2007-09-11 15:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by Perfectionist 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋