2007-09-11 08:13:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
How old are you? You need to tell your boyfriend that you dont want a baby right now. If at all possible wait until your married to even think about having children. Its not easy raising children on your own. Have the baby because YOU want to not because he wants to.
2007-09-11 08:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by lilLuv_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should really let your boyfriend know that having a baby is a huge commitment and there are so many factors to consider. First, the mommy needs to want to have this baby. Being pregnant should be a wonderful thing and if you aren't ready, then you shouldn't have a baby. Second, your boyfriend should completely understand. If he doesn't, then you might want to reconsider your relationship. Really sit down and think about having this baby. It really does change your life. You should be so happy when trying and having a baby.
2007-09-11 15:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Charcelia Spry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a baby just because someone wants you to. You have to want the baby. A baby is a living, breathing person. You are responsible for that person until the day you die. It's not a decision to take lightly. Just by the nature of your question I would say you are too young to even be considering this. Don't do it unless you really want it.
2007-09-11 15:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well after going through one of those ( guy's ) , oh your pregnant ?? and being excited they quickly relaized just how expensive a child was and then wanted me to obort . Of course I didn't and now I've a 12 year old thriving young man and I thought his Dad and I would of been together forever , but as you can see once excited as he acted ( then ) quickly changed his mind ...............
Don't ever do something that you are not prepaired for , children need and I mean ALOT of attention , your time and money and if your not ready I would consider talking with him and if he truly loves you he will wait until your ready ........
2007-09-11 15:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by remigirlrotweiler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have one. Tell him that he needs to make a commitment to you before you'll think of having children with him. If you can't see yourself ever having kids with him, then I'd cut my losses now before you're too attached to him. If he wants a baby and is pressuring you, then he's not right for you.
2007-09-11 16:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sit'nTeach'nNanny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not have a baby if you are not ready. Make sure you are on a birth control that you are in control of. Good luck!
2007-09-11 15:22:20 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have a baby you dont want
get a new boyfriend
2007-09-11 15:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, Do Not Have One. DO NOT have sex. Find a new boyfriend. Never do anything you do not want to do.
2007-09-11 15:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to.
If he argues with him, explain to him, that it is your body and your life and you are not ready or don't want to have a baby yet.
2007-09-11 15:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Gabrielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he want to marry you? If your not ready then too bad you have all the responsibilty even if he says he will help its bull!!! maybe later he will but newborns guys really just dont
2007-09-11 15:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by carla k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋