Has anyone wished they had tried harder to keep their marriage togther, and regretted getting divorced?

Answer 1

What I regret is that I didn't decide to end it sooner. I stayed out of fear for what the future would hold for me if I were to change my life. It was hard, but worth it. I worked very hard to make my marriage work, but sometimes what you need to do that just isn't there. My motto: When you have a tough decision to make then think about it from all aspects. When you make a decision, make the one you feel is best and then move forward and don't look back. When you have a choice to make there are always positives and negatives to both sides. The moment of absolute certainty never arrives.

Answer 2

If you've gone through with a divorce you should know before hand that the marriage was absolutely beyond repair, and have no regrets about divorcing. As tough as it is look at as a chance to start or and make things right the next time around by identifing the do/don't that were just learned throughout your divorce. Yes it is a hard lesson and it leaves you feeling as if you failed in a sense, and leaves lots of unanswered questions. But if the two of you do still love one another and truly feel that even ground can be seen by both of you again in regards to your marriage, then yes if both agree to work to stay together and poosibly use a professional to assist in you repairing your relationship.

Answer 3

It happened the same to me except that my hubby wasn't deployed and we have less than 6 month marry. So it was very hard for me and i just felt that he was there doing nothing while I was in charge of everything. It makes me feel frustrated and pissed all the time so of course I scream at him and we would fight every single day. I would talk to other people and everybody would say that is take time to get use and that marry life is harder than we thought. But for me I feel like it shouldn't be hard and get use to each other make no sense bc we used to live together before. When I brought the news to him that I want to get divorce it was devastating for him he cried, he promise to change and so on. So I give him a chance and he is doing better. We sat down and talk about it what we can do to make it work. So I guess It does take work to make a marriage to work. We are doing better now and he is helping a lot around the house. Sit down with him calmly have a conversation about what is not working between you guys and how you guys can make it work. If he really loves you he is going to try to be better.

Answer 4

I'm asking my self the same thing, but I have not filed for divorce yet because I'm scared I might make a mistake. I cannot tolorate my husband but the idea of divorce seems so final. I guess its a risk you have to take, and since you have already done it, its too late not to even ask that question, unless the relationship can start over- as something better for both of you. If not, its nor worth worring about because you can't go back in time!

Answer 5

I filed for divorce only after I knew that I had absolutely done every single thing I could have done to keep it together.

Answer 6

I'm still wondering whether I'll get divorced or not.it's a hard decision...and every case is different.....ask yourself what's going to be like if you stay married?.....if you would really miss something? how can you compensate that? if there're kids involved?..if your husband treats you good and what percentage of the time things are fine?....have you both learned to compromise?...would he be willing to compromise?.....there're many things to take in consideration..good luck...and i'll need it too....

Answer 7

yup, 30 years ago- oops did i day that!!! Then the battle wouldv'e just went on for 30 more years!! nope glad to be gone!!z

Answer 8

not me if I wouldn't have gotten divorced my life wouldn't be as wonderful as it is now

Answer 9

HELL NO!