Follow up for the Ladies...?

Question

So why do women complain about men so much when they go for the "bad boy". You know what makes him a bad boy. He is mysterious, keeps secrets, is emotionaly distant, and often cheats. That makes him unobtainable and therfor desirable. You want what you can't have and when you get it you expect to keep it all for yourself when that is clearly not the nature of a "bad boy". It doesn't make sense. Why do you want someone that plays hard to get or someone that plays games period?

Answer 1

I've never wanted a bad boy.
Honestly, the bad boy image doesn't attract me at all.

Answer 2

Well, not all bad boys cheat or treat their signifigant others badly. Many times, the bad boy image comes across b/c it is someone who is a non-conformist, someone who parties hard, someone who gets into fights; he might have tattoos, a motorcycle, a potty mouth, etc.

I think the attraction is something that is (annoyingly) innate in most women: we are up for the challenge to change or tame the wildness in him. When we get involved with them, we somehow feel that it'll be a fun ride at first - his wild ways are new, different and exciting to us. BUT, the ride is over when we say it's over. And that's where it all goes to pot when we try to mold him into our own idea of a man.

Just my $0.02.

Answer 3

Because love IS a game. You need to get out there and experience it. Don't sit around and mope about it, just get out there and start talking with girls, smile, look us in the eye, and make us feel comfortable. You'll get some eventually if you practice this.

Answer 4

i want the bad boy image not w/ everything w/ being a bad boy

Answer 5

Because we are convinced," he will change for me,I can help him change ".It's an illusion.He never changes,who ends up changing is the woman.