No big deal I don't think but, what do you think. Sometimes the cell will ring at night or in the morning and she often will look at it but not answer. She'll also get texts at night and not look at them when I'm in the room. Or she'll say she doesn't know who it's from. I'm probably just being stupid right?
2007-09-11 04:35:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks for the answers.
2007-09-11 05:55:30 · update #1
oh dear.....
2007-09-11 04:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being stupid. She is probably getting calls from another man and text messages as well. I'd be looking at her phone when she isn't around just to find out. Or check the cell phone bill :)
2007-09-11 12:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by You can do it!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is her cell phone on so late at night? If she is not worried about this then don't you worry. Your not stupid, you just are wondering what is gong on here, I'd walk out of the room and then look to see what she's doing about the texts and messages being a little cagey doesn't hurt anything.
2007-09-11 11:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being stupid to be suspicious. Check her phone. Check the call records online. Check the bills. There is a record of it somewhere, even if she deletes it off her phone after she receives it. Ask her who is texting her or calling her that late at night. If she says she doesn't know who it is, ask her to let you see it, maybe you will recognize the number. If she refuses, then she is up to something. My hubby would want to know who it was, and in my opinion, has every right to know who calls me. You have the right to know everyone your wife talks to or communicates with.
2007-09-11 13:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm - I would say you probably have got something to worry about here.
If they were legitimate texts/calls I'm sure your wife would tell you honestly who they were from.
Have you talked to her about it? Ask her how she'd feel if you were acting in a similar way.
One thing I will say is well done for not snooping and checking her phone when she's not there - that sort of thing really will end in tears! Better to honest with each other.
2007-09-11 11:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Badgrl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex husband. You wouldn't believe some of the stories he would come up with to conceal things from me.
Start by checking the cell phone bill. See if any one particular phone number pops up a lot, and if there are any long phone conversations with that number. You could even try calling the number and see who picks up.
OH and I like the idea of checking the phone while she is sleeping.
2007-09-11 12:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trusting is one thing, being naive is another. Take the blinders off, if someone is calling that late at night it either is a wrong number or another guy. Tell your wife about your concerns and ask her if she minds if you read the text at that late hour. Being that she says she does not know who it is opens the door for you to check.
2007-09-11 11:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, if you feel something weird is going on it probably is. If she's super defensive its a sign. Check her phone when shes sleeping its not being psycho its giving yourself peace of mind. If you find something out at least you know and can move on. That explaing how you feel crap is a waste of time she'll just lie and deny it.
2007-09-11 11:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh...I might be concerned about it if it's happening regularly. It sounds fishy to me, I'm sorry to say. The only way to really know is to snoop unfortunately. If you're not comfortable with that, then when she says she doesn't know who it's from, ask to listen to the message or see the text. Tell her maybe you'll recognize the number. If she starts to look panicky or changes the subject, I would cry foul.
2007-09-11 11:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I got calls on my cell I never knew who they were from.
but never a text.
Tell her you need to talk with the person who is calling.
So she won't have to hear the cell ring from some she dose not know.
2007-09-11 12:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Krissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay calm there's a solution or u may try to talk to her and explain her how u feel and what woudl she do in that case if she were u,or u may take her cell when she's not attentive especially in the morning when u both go to work and so u can have a day to find out.good luck
2007-09-11 11:48:25 · answer #11 · answered by elana c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋