2007-09-11 04:22:41 · 13 answers · asked by Help! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take it off when you want to take it off. No right or wrong here.
2007-09-11 04:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it off when you are ready. When you realize that there's no going back you will see the world open up to new things and ideas that you didn't see before. My husband left me last year and I was heart broken. It hurt so bad and I didn't think I was gonna live. It took a few friends and some time to heal but I have moved on with my life. Its hard to move on but one day you will see that its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. Good luck and don't forget love may have caused you pain this time but next time it could be the right person so don't let it pass you by. Live life don't live in the past.
2007-09-11 04:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by tammynashton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When YOU, yourself, feel it's the right time. I was so angry, I took off my ring almost right away after the split-up (I say "almost" because in the first few days the ring was the last thing on my mind, I was too distraught to think of anything clearly). I personally don't see a point in wearing a ring from a non-existing relationship, but that's just me. Other people might need more time to "ease into" singlehood". Good luck.
2007-09-11 05:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... what my mom did (and I thought was real clever) was she took off her wedding ring but is wearing another ring in its place. She knows that since she and my dad aren't together right now, the wedding band doesn't make sense but she wants people to know that she's not looking. I think it's a good intermediate step.
2007-09-11 08:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you look down at your hands and see your ring and your hurt because you have seperated you are just making it harder on you.
It may not be your choice for the seperation but he left. He is moving on and you are holding on.
It's your ring wear it as long as you'd like but know that still doesn't change the way he feels nor will it bring him back.
2007-09-11 04:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Valentina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal and individual answer. It will be when your ready and not before. When your ready to admit to yourself that you not the other person is ready to move on with your life, relationships etc. This does not mean you need to have another partner at the time.
2007-09-11 04:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just symbolic and nothing is sacrosanct about it anymore.Do it now or whenever you wish but do hide or keep it out of sight.
2007-09-11 04:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its not your choice keep it on until he/her goes for the divorce.
i am not with me guy and i have my ring on still and i dont plan to take it off
2007-09-11 04:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by suepooh23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your ready to finally admit that like it or not the relationship is over.
2007-09-11 04:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As hurtful as it is, I think the right time is when the relationship ended, since your feelings are not going to change the outcome here.
2007-09-11 04:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by E! 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋