a close friend of mine text me in the middle of the night and ask me if I like me....and i said im not yet ready for that question and he explain to me why he liked me....i ask him if he was drunk he said no and he was serious about what he said....but i always reply to him that im not yet ready and sure
the next day he next me again and said sorry for he is drunk last night and dont know what he happen
do you think he lied to me because he dont want to destroy our friendship or is he really drunk?
2007-09-11 03:47:52 · 16 answers · asked by cagari a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He lied...He wasnt drunk
2007-09-11 03:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it could be either. But I would lean towards he wasn't drunk, simply because by you asking if he was drunk, you gave him a way out if he didn't get the response he hoped for. Did his text messages during the time he was "drunk" make sense? If they did he's lying so he doesn't destroy a friendship he obviously values. If they didn't make sense, he was probably drunk.
Either way, have a chat with him and tell him you value the friendship too and maybe down the line you might be interested in a relationship with him (say this only if it's true!) but right now you aren't ready. If he constantly brings it up, tell him it makes you uncomfortable and you'll let him know when the timing is right. Either way, don't expect him to hang around and wait for you, he may but don't be upset if he doesn't.
2007-09-11 03:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by tnk3181979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he chose the "out" you gave him the night before ("Are you drunk") because he felt embarrassed that he told you the way he feels and you turned him down. Now, he wants you to believe that he didn't really mean it, so he won't feel like so much of a fool. If you want him as a friend, don't mention it again to him; let him believe that you think it was just the alcohol talking. But you need to be upfront with him about your feelings. This "I'm not ready for that question yet" is just a copout. All you're doing with that is stringing him along....but you knew that already.
2007-09-11 03:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably really likes you... but he was working up his confidence to say something about it.... and either he was scared of rejection - so he said that he was drunk.. or he really was drunk... and if he didn't like your answer he could just say "oh i was drunk, i dont remember what happened.. " and then he'll laugh like nothing did.
so the answer to your question is YES HE LIKES YOU... and he MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE BEEN DRUNK.... but the REAL question ... is how come you haven't been upfront and tell him that you ARE or ARE NOT interested. That way he could TOTALLY AVOID those dumb~*** in the middle of the night TEXT's and CALL's.
2007-09-11 03:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say and you know him better than anybody being that he is your friend. If he told you he was drunk, then you should just believe him. Don't worry about it. Sounds like you both have discussed it before so it's nothing new. You are not ready for anything so it shouldn't matter.
2007-09-11 03:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Yeah, He probably has been drunk before when asked that. So If he feels uncomfortable asking cuz of the response your giving him then why not blame it on drinking again, Id do the same thing. makes sense
2007-09-11 03:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa*LiSa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THat is hard to say, COuld be both, I was once told a drunk man tells no tails.. Witch means that if he was drunk and texed you that, he still had the fellings for you!!
BUT if he was drinkig with friends and they could have daired him or something or one of his 'buddys' did it and did not tell him!!!!
2007-09-11 04:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Adam D. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have possibly been drunk... but who cares he likes you, he just got his courage up to say something because he was drunk, so then the next day he feels like a moron... be nice to him... just answer his question... if you dont like him like that let him know right away, dont play games...
2007-09-11 03:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
doubt it , he probably could not sleep is all. and had you on the brain. just testing the water for sex.why else do you think he's lying.chances are he'll move on to the next girl, but he'll back later to test the water again and again. my Advise; keep him always at arms length,best to play it safe for now, especially when your the one who's not sure.Hope this helps.
2007-09-11 04:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by Back Attcha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imo, he wasn't drunk, but used the excuse for his actions. If he didn't know what happened, why then would he apologize?
2007-09-11 03:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by deiracefan_219 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk. but with alcohol or love?
2007-09-11 03:52:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋