me and hubby have been together 6 years married for 2 and it great we are happy to be free and easy with each other it gets better every year.I don't understand why people think its boring
2007-09-11 03:29:54 · 43 answers · asked by noot 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have a child and it's still great
2007-09-11 03:36:27 · update #1
I agree with you - I've been married 24 years and we always find different ways of keeping the heat up in our relationship.....either different places, different positions.
Lately we've taken to doing it in places we may get caught like in a park, or in the car in broad daylight, or on the beach.....it's never been boring.....
2007-09-11 04:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because many married couples get comfortable in there positions. Therefore, they quit doing the little things for each that keeps their compassion and love alive. In time, I think people get lazy so they forget to do those things. They are too busy to stop and give the spouse a hug and a kiss upon returning from work. They don't think to hold hands while out in public or go to a nice dinner every once in a while to bring the romance back. Then of course, sex suffers and so does the rest of the relationship. When many first get married, the sex is great and all the time... then slowly it is twice a week, then once a week... then once every two weeks and so on and so forth. People get lazy and forget to spice things up a bit. How marriage is and whether it is miserable or happy depends upon each person and whether they are continually trying to keep the "home fire" burning. I'm so happy that you and your husband remember to do those little things and to keep things spiced up. I hope you guys have many more wonderful years together. Best of luck, girl!
2007-09-11 03:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some people get stuck in a rut. You know, a routine. For example...#1-kiss me, #2-caress my body, #3-roll on top, etc. You get the picture. That's why experts always tell you to spice things up, change things up.
You and your husband have it good right now. I hope you feel that after being married for 10 years. The other 4 years stopped counting once you got married.
2007-09-12 05:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by lawstudntbynite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who are married and say sex is boring treat it as a routine! Same position, same ooo and ahh... nothing is different! Married couples with good sex lives switch it up! They have fun with each other! I've been married 8 years and I agree with you.. it gets better every year! WTG keeping it alive... some people think it takes effort! All it really takes is two people who love each other and love the excitement of intimacy!
2007-09-11 03:38:15 · answer #4 · answered by Songsdeli 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that married couple's usually treat each other with too much respect when it comes to sex and they're afraid to talk about they're desire's and do some of them to keep the relationship young,anyway i have a beutiful sex life simply because i say anything that comes across my mind and my partner is very happy with this.
2007-09-11 06:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
u have been together only 6 years. That is nothing. Sex with my wife after 6 years was great too. We have now been together for almost 16 years...married for almost 9. Sex becomes very routine. Then throw in having a baby which makes harder to even have sex without rushing through it.
2007-09-11 03:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why either. I've been married for 6 years, and it does just keep getting better...but it also takes work and imagination.
I think sometimes people aren't willing to put in the time it takes to build the trust that lets you be fully free with another person's body.
2007-09-11 03:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by ninn09262 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you and your partner to make sure it isn't boring. Sometimes people let problems like money troubles, or worrying about the children get in the way. They work too hard to keep the home together and just don't have any energy left for lovemaking. It's very sad.
2007-09-11 05:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by proud walker 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! your one of the lucky ones.. I been with my husband for 10 yrs. and married for 8 yrs. and the sex is horrible, wait minute we do not have sex anymore.. Well when we was having sex at first it was great then because he is 8 yrs. older then me he became a minute man. I am not satisfied at all.. When we was having sex it was a nightmare because he sucks in bed.. We was suppose to get a divorce but we are staying together for the children. I know that it is a bad idea but I do not want my children to suffer because I am having sex issues.. They are ways to get around that...
2007-09-11 04:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by Vicky 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm married (with a child) and I think the sex is still amazing. Gets better with time. Those that think it's boring better find a way to spice things up!
2007-09-11 04:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by PrincessJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋