i have been told many a time that i,m "too nice," and should put myself first more often, but can a person really be to nice, i don't think so ,what do you think.
2007-09-11 03:23:12 · 17 answers · asked by susiesnowdrop 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What people often mean when they say someone is too nice is that they see them allowing others to walk all over them. People like that don't say what they really think or feel, and they don't stand up for themselves the way they should. Sometimes being overly nice is a clever disguise for being afraid of someone not liking them, or afraid of someone becoming angry with them. It's important for you to know that a person can be nice, and still have some firm boundaries.
2007-09-11 03:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-31 19:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly do think that people can be too nice. When you're letting people walk all over you over and over there's a time to put a stop to it.
You don't have to be mean to put yourself first in some situations. You can be as kind as possible but sometimes you can't just bend over backwards for everyone.
Take this for example: My best friend owns her house but lets her mom and younger sister live there. They don't pay the bills and are ruining their part of the house. My friend is drowning in debt and barely able to pay her house payment each month but yet she just lets her mom walk all over her. She wouldn't need to be mean but does need to set down some rules and make them follow them. Is it fair that she's ruining her credit, house, and so stressed out that she's getting sick because of their horrible behaviour?
Of course people can be too nice.
2007-09-11 03:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley Sue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be nice an still stand up for yourself and what you believe in. If people are walking all over you because of your niceness then you have to be stronger. And it doesn't hurt to put yourself first every once in a while !
2007-09-11 03:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by MickyB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...
It's quite ok to be a nice and generous person.
It can become a problem when we give too much and do more for others than we do for ourselves. One day we might wake up and notice that no one does anything for us!
I have been an OVER-GIVING person most of my life... i have noticed that i began to feel left out and used... it was because i gave too much.
I quit that stuff, and now I come first.. that's the way it should be.
take care.
2007-09-11 03:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are too nice when other people walk all over them. There is nothing wrong with being"nice" as long as you realize there is a line that you have to draw between being nice and a doormat.
2007-09-11 03:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a person can be too nice....you have to think of yourself sometimes...or else some people will take an advantage of your generosity and walk all over you.
2007-09-11 03:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the biggest part of the time you end up being last and maybe feel like you have been pushed to the side but just go on it sounds like you probally get taken advantage of alot. but i have seen alot of people so pushy so forward in order to get there way that also makes them unattractive. so if you could not be as so called nice just take up for yourself dont let people take advantage of you but also dont take advantage of others as alot do you will be okay
2007-09-11 03:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by jeannieboop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy being "too nice" according to others, don't mind them. Apparently you are comfortable with yourself because you don't think it's too much. More people now are selfish and just want others to be like them. They might even feel threatened by others that they think are "too nice" and that's why they think like that.
2007-09-11 03:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by why ask 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being nice does not mean being taken advantage of. Be nice, but don't let people walk all over you or again take advantage of you.
2007-09-11 03:26:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sirena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋