there are some hot looking people that i know that have zero sex appeal and there are some plain people who have really sexy personalities that make me go weak at the knees. obviously you do have to find something about their looks attractive too. but have you found this?
2007-09-11 02:51:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I love a smart woman..sure the outside catches u first but the inside is what matters the most.
2007-09-11 04:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think initially a lot of people go for physical attraction but it doesn't last if that's all a relationship is based on.
It has to be personality as well, in fact that is a big part of it because its no good if someone has a crap personality, or conflicting.
2007-09-11 03:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY!
To be perfectly honest, when I first met my Man of 16 months, I wasn't too attracted. He wasn't my type physically. But after getting to know him...within hours he was HOT! And still, he's the hottest thing ever.
Same with me. I'm not much to look at...but I've been told that my personality makes me sexy.
2007-09-11 03:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely!
When I first met my boyfriend, I wasn't sure if it would ever develop into anything. He wasn't exactly my type physically but I figured I'd at least give it a shot and ask him out on a date.
My friends usually joke around because I don't date the most physically attractive people, but for me, it's all about the personality!
2007-09-11 03:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by gopher646 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I completely agree! Great face, great bod is great and all. But, personality is truly the icing for me. Its great to be physically attracted to you (which is a key part), but if we can't connect beyond that I don't even see the point of really continuing on. I mean unless of course you just want to have a cheap thrill. But, honestly for me as a lesbian woman- I find it extremely difficult to just engage in anything intimate with another woman, if we don't have some other sort of connection. So, their personality and my personality have got to just gel.
2007-09-11 08:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by Tickle me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, I have met some very attractive people who were awful and you just wanted to run away. Others may not be very physically attractive but their attitude makes them very sexy
2007-09-11 02:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by startrektosnewenterpriselovethem 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Personality is a big thing for me. I know it may be clichè, but looks don't do a whole lot. Personality is a great thing to have.
2007-09-11 03:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2007-09-11 02:57:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it can. No personality can make a hideously ugly person (in my eyes) attractive, but it can turn an average woman into walking hotness.
2007-09-11 03:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I spent four nights with this guy and 3 girls just now, i just came back home...we were all girls just him a guy and i loved the way he carried himself with us and he just fitted in perfectly and was comfortable in the situtation he was in and he seemed like sucha interesting guy, always making a conversation with you, smiling, laughing, joking and he seems interested in everything and knows alot...he really inspired me this weekend for something positive, he wasnt ugly either, he was ok but his persona was good :)
2007-09-11 02:58:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋