please help me i am 21 years old guy i am too much preoccupied with sex. I masturbate a lot and think of girls all the time I cant really stop myself due to this my studies are suffering a lot I don’t know what do plz help me out of this trap….
2007-09-11 00:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sorry, but you are incurable ! And that is a good problem to have, I guess. Believe it or not, you will outgrow your strong urges as time passes. You just have to live with your urges, and fulfill them in whatever way is possible at the time....i.e., playing with your junk, girlfriend, nymphomaniac, or whatever.
You will outgrow it, so try to study as much as possible, and the rest of the time just have fun!
2007-09-11 01:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to have such feelings & is common amongst the youths especially those who do not have girlfriend.
Masturbation is good way to give an outlet to your feelings.
Get a girlfriend.
You need to divert your attention towards other physical activities if u r not able to have a girlfriend, like join a gym.
A workout or jogging or any game that u like to play diverts your attention plus the benefit of keeping fit.
Meditate with your eyes closed & let all the fantasies come & go. U can also meditate with soothing light music but your eyes should remian closed all the time. Sit on the floor with some cushoning & do it for 30 - 45 mins, two times a day.
Join some voluntary group or do some social service.
What ever u do do not indulge in any activity which will harm your body, like AIDS.
2007-09-11 02:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you are pretty normal there Bro, and not to get to worked up (pardon the pun) about the whole thing. Just take care of your business before going to school, and take a break from girls and sex for a few hours. Then spend some time in your little dream, sex world, and then get back to being involved with doing fun stuff with friends and interacting with people.
2007-09-11 03:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by jayydoggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my teenage sons.
If you are using the internet for your sex, that is not so good. It is full of lewd and lascivious acts that are not representative of human sexual activity. Exposure to that rot is like an addiction.
Learn some self control. Study buddhism and find out how you actually can control your mind and body. A person actually can voluntarily change their thoughts from obsessions (or sadness or frustration) and guide themselves to other thoughts (like studies, family, friends, good experiences) if they work at it.
2007-09-11 03:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a girlfriend then that would help, just find a needy lady who happens to enjoy the same pleasures you do. Go to sex problem meetings, and your sure to find a few willing to bend over backwards (lol) for you, if shes bad enough, you might even want to slow it down with your sex life, thus giving yourself more time for studies... just remember to wrap it up mate...
2007-09-11 01:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Neil P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its mind over matter. If you have a strong enough will to overcome your preoccupation you'll be alright. If not you'll probably end up flunking out and addicted to masturbation. Its your future, choose the one you want.
2007-09-11 06:29:45 · answer #6 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are males so its okay. Who doesn't think of such stuffs. But do you know why you are so occupied with it? Because there is nothing else to interest you. Perhaps pick up a sport, or listen to your favourite music.
2007-09-11 05:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur horny and u need a g/f that will relive u of these problems -- use remember to use protection
2007-09-11 01:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by de viking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in college as we speak and i have this problem now it sucks
2007-09-14 22:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by Kristie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋