When you find someone appealing,do you let them know it right away?

Question

Or....admire them from afar only?=)

thanx~

Answer 1

Depends on whether they're available and seem to be interested, too.

Answer 2

It depends on the situation.

I have to watch what I say around appealing women (whether physically, mentally, or both!) because:

(1.) I am married, for ten years;
(2.) I have a very strong libido that I know will get me in hot water if I do not consistently use willpower and self-discipline to keep it in check;
(3.) At work, this could be grounds for sexual harrassment and though I get hit on by women (and a few men) a LOT, I do not respond in kind.

Nevertheless, I tend to be rather appoachable to those I find appealing. Usually a smile, eye contact, a gentle tone of voice and chit-chatting works well (also, they often want to see my in-progress art, which I generally carry around with me at work in a protected binder.)

If it's someone I admire for what they do (artwork, for example) I try to leave intelligent, witty comments on their websites, and refrain completely from doing the "I'm your number one fan, will you draw me something?" kind of thing.


Generally speaking, I admire from a distance---but not too far, not too close :)

Answer 3

I usually admire them from afar to begin with.

Answer 4

if they're A-peeling... I tell them to wear sunscreen next time.


Just kidding


I do admire from afar but if that small voice inside me tells me to say "HI", I will

Answer 5

Oh yes and if I get rejected well meh I just remember that there is always more fish in the sea.
I never come on too strong ethier because I'm no whore.

Answer 6

I let them know right away. I like people to know where they stand with me. Morning sweetie.