for some reason i cant make friends with guys..they just dont want to be friends with me, i mean im nothing but nice to them and they are just mean to me in retern...i want to have a boyfriend, i want to be friends with guys, i want to me normal!
please help becoz this is makeing me really sad, and its makeing me feel like im not normal and that ill never be friends with guys...please help and reasure me!!!!
2007-09-10 22:56:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
what do u want guys to do to u?
adore u isnt it? be interested be cheerfull
!)smile
2)help out with group activities
3)socialize...
4)make friends with them...ask not what they have done 4 u but help them....love will come when u get to know each other
i went out to find a friend i found noone...i went out to be a friend and there were many...remember this old saying
5)make ur external appearance good..go to a beauty clinic..exercise...do whatever..
6)copy good characters of girls who are around and do seem popular...
7)join a club ...do a hobby...
be active....dancing,singing,music...study anything u like and spend time...i mean boys like girls with girlish arts
go with the flow....i didnt have many gfs first...dont go after boys they will come after u.....
2007-09-10 23:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by shawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're TOO desperate and that is REALLY off-putting. It probably shows in your body language before you even get near them so they are mentally stepping back before you get within range. Be more aloof and start being interested in yourself for a change. Do things YOU want to do. It'll enhance your own self image and give you confidence. Don't go looking for a boyfriend. Eventually, when you give up trying to find one so desperately and are so busy with other things in your life that you relax and forget to be clingy....you'll find they'll suddenly be queuing up to be nice to you.
2007-09-10 23:14:41 · answer #2 · answered by chris n 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋