Do you tell them or suck it up and ignore them?
2007-09-10 19:12:41 · 14 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I had to put a fair amount of thought into this, and came up with this answer...
If it concerns me i will gently state my opinion and try to make the person see reason.
If it is none of my business, but i feel the need to say something i will just say "well this is your life and you have to live with the consequences, but for the record i disagree, but i am here if you need me."
If it is none of my business i will just shake my head and keep my mouth shut.
Ariel
2007-09-10 22:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by *~Ariel Brigalow Moondust~* 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on who it is. I have a lot of haughty friends and they are so fake they almost always disappoint me but they are my husbands business partners so I do suck it up. From my kids or my husband - I tell them straight out. Even if it hurts their feelings a little it'll be better for them in the end. We have a very open home for conversation about absolutely anything. We listen first, then discuss one at a time. If someone gets really out of shape they excuse themselves and leave. It works, it has with us.
2007-09-11 02:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you really care about someone, then you should tell them. Just try to approach them the way you would want someone to talk to you. People do stupid things sometimes, and they don't always realize when others care. You can't expect them to know how you feel if you don't try and tell them. Now - once you have tried and they don't seem to respond - that is when you need to decide if you want to suck it up and care about someone who doesn't care how you feel - or ignore them. If they don't care enough to listen to how you feel and consider you input - it is not worth your energy caring about them.
2007-09-11 02:21:43 · answer #3 · answered by tvm209 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually tell them that I'm diosappointed in their behavior. If they refuse to change it then I simply walk away from the whole situation. I don't need people like that in my life. I've worked too hard to pull my own act togather to let someone else try to take all that apart on me. I refuse to surrender my power over to someone else.
BB,
Raji the Green Witch
2007-09-11 08:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by Raji the Green Witch 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation,whether I tell them or not. If it's serious, I'd tell them.
I just get sad and then do my best to get over it. That's all you can do,really.
2007-09-11 02:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to suck it up
2007-09-11 02:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably tell them they disappointed me
2007-09-11 02:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I ignore them.....then I lay into them!~~~
2007-09-11 02:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them!!!!
What's the point???
2007-09-11 02:17:05 · answer #9 · answered by Cutemum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I let them know and then give them a hug to let them know i still care...
2007-09-11 09:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by Fae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋