Do you forgive and forget or remember and hold the grudge?

Answer 1

Depends what the transgression was. I tend to go for the forget more then the grudge. I don't need the negativity, so I simply mentally delete them from my memory and move on.

Some take a lot more work to forget than others though...

Answer 2

I Never Forget, I Hold A Grudge, I Remember And Then I Forgive..

Answer 3

Remember and hold the grudge where lesson can be learnt so we may be able to defence ourselves in the future from the same set of people. We could only forgive but not forget.

Answer 4

I always forgive and forget :) there's no point to hold a grudge..

Answer 5

i think you should forgive and forget although it's VERY hard lemme tell ya. Everyone makes mistakes
i shall quote from the ever so great movie "diary of a mad black woman
" You know I know this man put a hurtin' on you baby, but you've got to forgive him. No matter what he done, you've got to forgive him - not for him, but for you. When some body hurts you they take power over you, if you don't forgive them then they keeps the power. Forgive him baby and after you forgive him, forgive yourself."

Answer 6

i forgive easily but i find it hard to forget the incident, i never hold a grudge, thats a heavy baggage to carry. i just move on

Answer 7

I forgive, but not forget. I can't forget being wronged, but most times, I can get past it and move on.

Answer 8

Forgive but not forget.

Answer 9

Forgive and forget.

Answer 10

I don't do either, what I do is forgive. I find it hard to forget but I remind myself I've forgiven it and put the issue behind me.