Im in 7th grade about 5"3 or 5"4 and Im about 130-137 lbs. Im not FAT but im CHUBBY. I ahve never had a boyfriend and I'm almost 12 in the sixth grade. Will I ever get married or have a boyfriend? I do have to admit I am very pretty, its just my weight! I have tried to loose it but it's so hard for me! I'm really scared about not getting a boyfriend or not getting married becuase of this. I have ALOT of guy friends who I'm BFFs with. But none of them like me that way... what am I to do?!?! I have a dance on the thirtieth and I remember last year at the sixth grade sock hop I felt like I was the prettiest one there and I think my guy friend (who I secretly have a crush on) thought so to !!! SO if how can I get a boyfriend? And will I get a boyfriend from being Ms. CHUBBO!?
2007-09-10 13:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by Princess Natalie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
nOT SIXTH GRADE, SEVENTH, SORRY!
2007-09-10 13:40:50 · update #1
Sweetie, you're not as fat as you think you are. Yes, you will be loved, yes, you will get married some day, please don't let the weight issue cause an eating disorder. If you want to slim down, burn more calories and eat less fat and sugar. You don't have to go on a super restrictive diet, even cutting out soda will help. I had a friend who stopped drinking soda and lost 25 pounds!
I was the same as you, except it was all through high school, and once I got out of high school I slimmed down to 115 pounds. I started working at a retail store, and working caused me to burn more calories and the weight just fell off.
Please don't think someone will never love you. You're young yet, you have lots of time to love and be loved. Love yourself and your confidence will come through and confidence is VERY attractive to guys!
2007-09-10 13:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think your not ready for a boyfriend because you don't have a positive outlook on yourself. I think you should make yourself happy first. If you would be happier thinner, I suggest you start changing your lifestyle. I don't mean diet because when it end's, you'll be right back at doing the things that make you chubby. Change your eating habits, cut back on certain foods.... eat other certain foods that are healthier, and exercise so it's a normal part of your life not just to lose a few pounds. And i'm sure if you stick to it, they guy's will be calling and calling you 24/7. Just remember not to be a b*tch and stay a pleasant person. You shouldn't have to settle for any guy, you deserve to be happy.
2007-09-10 13:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by sticky.fngrz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.o....your in SEVENTH GRADE. It's not the end of the world, you will meet someone someday. I'm not going to sit here and tell you it will be in a couple of weeks because honestly only time will tell. Boys your age focus on looks and not much else. Although it's highly unlikely, your slight chubbiness might be the reason. Then again, if you're as pretty as you claim then your attractiveness could be intimidating to guys your age.
2007-09-10 13:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by soulsogood 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right. I'm 14 and have never had a boyfriend. At 12 why would you want one. You really need to wait to havwe a boyfriend if you think your weight has anything to do with it. Some people are 300-400 lbs and are married with children. please get real
2007-09-11 14:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confident in yourself....get on diet. The right person will come along regardless of how you look, just give yourself sometime. Do something for yourself like get on diet.....make yourself happy. Not having a boyfriend is not a bad thing, because once you meet the right person you'll feel even more special. Good luck
2007-09-10 13:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by whatitreaure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls fall in love with fat guys all the time. Its whats on the inside the counts.. I'm not sure about obese guys though.. Guys got to take care of himself, so that the girl knows he can take care of her and possibly children. got to be healthy.. girls don't want to be with a guy who cant get off the couch.
2016-04-04 01:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay your very young. You shouldn't stress over boys. Most boys your age are extremely immature. Being chubby isn't a problem. Learn to laugh at yourself, be confident and smile alot. You shouldn't sit here wondering why guys don't want you.. You should make them wonder why YOU don't want them!!! Learn to have that attitude and you will have many cute bf's. But don't be conceited! Just be fun to be around, laugh, be bubbly and try to dress different not slutty.
2007-09-10 13:57:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know. Don't lisen to what people say about you. Or whatever. Yeah, you should maybe loose a little pound or two. but there are at least one person in the world for us. Don't worry you'll find someone, and your still young. I'm in high school and I am still waiting. I am a little chubby but I lsot the pounds and I am happy wiht myself. You should too!
2007-09-10 13:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by shopperloverdrake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always had the same problem. I never had a boyfriend in school, didn't have my first until 21 and he dated me partly because he "felt sorry" for me. But at 26, i found a real man who not only doesn't mind bigger girls, but prefers them;he finds it sexy. But more than that, he loves me as a person and who i am, not for my body. So just hang in there and remember anyone worth loving will love you for who you are.
2007-09-10 13:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Understood 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to stop obsessing over your weight. If a boy doesnt like u because you may be a bit THICK then the heck with him and the right one will find you in TIME. U r only in 7th grade find out what you want in life and what you want to be before you worry about a bf.... take care and good luck.....
2007-09-10 13:48:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋