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cause they are often talk too loud around people with disabilities, they seem to be not frighten by people with mild or moderate disabilities because they are hinder and they can't necessarily fully function as normal people do.i think people with without disabiliites ARE monsters and they scare me.
you think they are monsters too?

2007-09-10 13:34:48 · 17 answers · asked by bostongreenleaf 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups People with Disabilities

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monster

2007-09-10 13:49:56 · update #1

17 answers

I don't have any disabilities and I'm certainly not a monster. And I don't talk about people that do have disabilities.

2007-09-10 13:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8 1

Something that troubles me.......We are surrounded by vehicles that have disabled person placards placed on bumpers and mirrors. (I'm not disabled and realize that nobody is immune from the possibility) But......often when parking my vehicle in a shopping center (and I completely respect handicapped parking spaces, never ever park there) I often see vehicles with the mandatory disabled person placard affixed and parking the vehicle in a handicap space, only to see an energetic person hop out of the big truck or SUV and briskly trot into the store. No disabled person from my point of view ever left the vehicle that parked in the reserved space. I've heard all the stories about why that may occur, but I think it is an abuse that probably helps contribute to the opinion that normal people are monsters. Obviously to me, very often the persons leaving/entering the placard plastered vehicles appeared to be normal in every way. On your next shopping trip.....if your handicapped/disabled loved one has been left at home then by all means park where the regulars do and save the space for somenone who really needs it! By the way....I'm a non-monster type (smile)
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Thanks for the calarification Ms Christi...I'm not all that judgemental, and understand I am commenting on a very sensitive subject from the perspective of one who is able-bodied. I however am very observant and protective of others rights (not every desire is protected by a right) and my own. I understand that not all is what it appears to be and would never approach a labled vehicle in a confrontational manner. I am humbled by the strength and will of those who are challenged by life, and in ways that I do not always understand. Oh and by the way.....thumbs up on your answer young lady!! :-}

2007-09-12 07:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Im disabled. 9o% treat me wonderfully. Im not physically deformed, but sometimes I need a wheelchair, or I get weired rashes, or seizures. I find most very caring. Now its the Drs that can be jerks. BTW I have Lupuswhich is an artritic and systemic disease. The other set of jerks are those who see a young/pretty women like me get out of a handicap plate limping a bit... or maybe not at all, if I hadent walked yet, and make rash judgments... Um thats for mr construction guy... But by the time I leave the store. I CAN NOT HARDLY WALK! because my muscles and joints start to go, and its men like him that have caused me to stop using DR ORDERED PLALTES! Just ignorant.though i agree some do fake it. I DO NOT, and happen to be rather pretty, and just 40. other than that everyone is very kind, and if I do not feel well can tell, it shows on my face, in my eyes

2007-09-12 08:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by christibro40 3 · 1 0

I consider my self a normal person and I am no where near being a monster either. I even take care of both of my parents which I might add that both of them have disabilities. Believe me, if I ever heard any body putting them down, I would get very angry at that person. But every one that has been around my parents have all been very nice and helpful to them. So please don't call all normal people monsters. If someone is mean to people that have a disability, it is just because they have not grown up yet.

2007-09-10 16:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 2 0

They're not monsters. They just choose to be ignorant. Yeah, they don't seem to be threatened by people with mild to moderate disabillities, but they sure do get jealous when they see that some of us can't work and get money from the govt! Why would u want people to be afraid of u? Isn't that just another way u'd be isolated from the world? There are scarey people everywhere, not just in "normalville". I do see where ur coming from with the monster comment, but they aren't all like that. There are some wonderful normal people who try to help cripples out w/o passing judgement, and just let them be. And there are cripples who can't stand normals because they're different, and arent nice and don't understand.

2007-09-10 17:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 1 0

I'm sorry that you've had a bad experience(s) with us "monsters". But, I'm kinda offended by that comment. If I call all disabled people freaks just because they're not like me, that wouldn't work, would it? So, how do you get away with calling normal people "monsters"? Think there's a double-standard here?

(i'm sorry if that comment I made offended anyone, but I was just using it to get a point across. I do NOT consider disabled people freaks. If I did think that, then I would be a monster.)

2007-09-10 14:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by hiccup_snickup 4 · 7 0

I work as a carer for people with moderate to severe disabilities and none of them scare me. I don't believe any of them are scared by me either, nor should they be. Its a job requirement for me to treat these folk with respect and dignity, so I do. Unfortunately there is no such requirement for them to treat me with any sort of respect at all. Consequently they don't. They swear, they hit and spit, and they are sexually suggestive towards me and other staff, they report us for not tending to them in a timely manner, never mind that I have many others to tend to who may have greater need. If I wasn't obliged, by law, to be respectful towards these people I would treat them just as I treat anyone else... with respect - until they disrespect me. It's all too easy to be rude and nasty to someone who isn't allowed or cant retaliate, and they know this.

2007-09-13 13:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 0 0

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2016-11-14 21:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by blinebry 4 · 0 0

Some people are rude around people who are different because they don't know how to act. They don't realize that they should just be themselves. That doesn't make them monsters. No one is really normal.

2007-09-13 02:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by ..... 5 · 0 0

No ,many of them show lack of understanding and are frightened.I would never go out with a TAB"temporarily able bodied women.However I found most Devs OK.You are better off mixing with club members.

2007-09-10 19:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by starone 3 · 0 0

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