visitation rights?

Question

my childs father is trying to take me to court because he claims that i violated a visitation order and he had no idea about my childs whereabouts, which is a lie, but anyway can anyone tell me what rights dose a man have who refuses to financially take care of his child and when visiting makes child self esteem differ by telling them they need to exercise because he dosen't want them to be fat, now mind u this child is not fat or dose not have an ounce of body fat on her, i think that he is crazy....... making the child develope a early complex about themself, and dont want to communicate or compromise with the mother about things concerning the child. his whereabouts is confidential, so how can he get mad about visitation when he dont do anything for this child that is positive? they pg (paternal grandmother), and father spoil child so when she comes home she is disobedient and acts like she dosent want to be home. how can i get this character out of my and childs life,any advice?

mind u that this dude has smoked marijuana, and drank most of his teenage and adult life and now wants to get clean listens to his mother promting him like a puppet, and says it it my problem when i ask for things for my child? what would a judge say to this, why should he be allowed to have any contact with my child , attitude is unpredictable, was in rehab etc. cannot stick to any aggrements made verbaly to benefit the well-being of child ,..what rights dose this man have as a deadbeat in the eyes of the court?....only positive advice please i have time for no bs...just as u can dish it , i can dish it back.....answer only if u are genuine, because i will respond to ur comments.thank you for responding if u do so in best intrests.

and athough he has court orderd visitation, am i able to move out of state,to better my life without any conflicts at all?

first off glen b i did not choose to create a child with him , it was something i did as a teenager, and it so happened that i got pregnant,furthurmore, i see that ur a father urself which may prompt some anger in u but i can say this why should i give a dead beat any more chances when for the past 11 years all i been trying to do is be civil, with his a@$. im tired of the bullcrap all these deadbeat fathers out there thinking that they have rights, if u refuse to do anything for the child and ur life is a **** up, why should i subject my child to ur missery, he should have cleaned up his act 11 yrs ago, second aint nobody holding me in contempt of nothing cause he fuc@#$% knew that my child was going to spend time with family, if he could not occupie his time tough, third what if man did this to ur wifee, daughter or another female in ur life and family, how would u feel? what would u say. u guys think we owe yall the world but i say one thing , he is barking up the darn wrong tree.

for all other people i am not a baby mama or a chicken head girl, i am a grown woman, working , a college student by hard work and committment, a mother of three, and one of the fairest people who when tired of others bs, i step off and let them fall on their faces, i don t have time for the dumbsh@#$.

Answer 1

First of all, you can't get rid of this "character" in your life. You chose to pro-create with him, so the best thing you can do for the benefit of your child is to act civilly and tactful with him in regards to y'all's child. Be greatful that he at least wants to participate in your child's life where other fathers choose to ignore. He can petition to the court to hold you in contempt of court if you did deny him visitation, if and only if there is a court mandated order for it.

The best thing you can do for the sake of your child is to swallow some pride and talk with the father of the child. Try and come to agreements and terms.

On the other hand, the court can enforce the support order or else find him guilty and impose certain punishments. Other than the stated support order he does not have any other legal obligation, unless otherwise stated in the order.

Edit; if there is no legal documents stating what can/can not be done, that's something you need to hash out with the father of your child.

Answer 2

Legally visitation and child support are two separate and unrelated issues. How he treats the child may be grounds to alter the visitation order. You would have to address both issues in court. In the future, document every visitation and every conversation about visitation.

Edit: In response to the first answer, moving away from the area without the courts consent may put YOU in violation of the visitation order. DON'T do anything to interfere with visitation without consulting an attorney.

Answer 3

Move far away. If he wants visitation make him travel.

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