Is there really such thing as too picky when you are choosing someone to whom you will say "I do" for THE REST OF MY LIFE"?
I mean, why settle?...or am I wrong....
2007-09-10 12:04:12 · 15 answers · asked by W~~~Dream a Little Dream~~~P 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, it's possible to be too picky, and No, don't "settle" - hope that helps... Sorry, couldn't resist. I think the List needs to be flexible, something like must have, nice to have, and could change...
2007-09-10 16:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's what dating is all about. it's like a job interview. you need to find the person that best fits the job. if you can't find someone who meets most of you qualifications, keep looking. you can't be too picky. if you just settle it will be a horrible mess. and who knows, in the time that you are settled with the wrong person you may miss the right one's chance to come into your life....
2007-09-11 02:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends.
if you are not interested because he is 1" too short, 10 lbs too heavy, didnt go to college but has a good secure job, earns 1,000.00 less then you want, that would be too picky.
if the guy was a 1' shorter, 200lbs heavier, didnt go to high school, cant hold a job, is on welfare, that would not be too picky.
yes , i think is is possible to be too picky, but it is also possible to settle for something you really dont want.
2007-09-11 04:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should be extremely picky, settling for the wrong person is not a good way to live your life!
2007-09-11 11:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Chris C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
picky about how he looks, acts, or treats you...or all of the above? No one is perfect, you grow to love little things about people if they were always exactly what you wanted or expected life would be so boring!! Dont sweat the small stuff like snoring or eating gross food combinations.... as long as he/she isnt a deranged killer or complete ******, give your partner a chance I say!!
2007-09-11 10:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lisadolenz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I settled for my last marriage...thinking all would be good. Turns out to be one of the biggest mistakes of my life however, he did teach me what to look out for in a partner and what to avoid.
I'm now happily married to a man that is just right for me. I had to become picky...one must if you value your happiness!
Good question! :-)
2007-09-11 02:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to realistic in your wants and needs and then.... be picky to satisfy them. YOU know yourself better than anyone and what makes you happy. Trust me... saying "I do" is a big deal even though the world today is so quick to divorce..... so be sure you want to spend your life with whomever you choose!
2007-09-11 02:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bonjour madam
depneds what your being picky about, essentials, loyality, compatibility over majour things is important.
The rets isnt important fo rme.
aurevoir
2007-09-10 23:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by jam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself am one of the so called shy loner guys... usually if a girl approaches me I don't reject them I just kind of clam up and don't really know what to say and i think most girls take it like i'm not interested but i'm just shy
2016-05-21 08:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by dolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have settled before, don't do it, take your time, you'll know when it's the right time. I rushed into it and I'm sorry I did!!
2007-09-10 12:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋