it was our sons 2nd birthday on friday. he recieved no call or no card and no present from his grandma but 3 weeks ago was her birthday and me n my hubby bought her a new computer. we even went to her birthday party n he set up the computer too! i was told i could go to her birthday party but i had to stay outside. she oes not like me and is abusive to me and has hit me before too. i have done nothing to her what so ever. she is mad at me cuz she said i took her son away from her. he is 45 yrs old. we been married 5 yrs and have a 2 yr old .what woudl u do in this situation?
2007-09-10 11:00:42 · 4 answers · asked by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and the womANhas money too...i would not expect an expensive gia damn card would have been nice or a coloring book....
2007-09-10 11:06:02 · update #1
she has even done this at xmas time too.
2007-09-10 11:26:39 · update #2
You have let her and him disrespect you long enough. Since you are aware his mother is a nut and dose not like you then I can't understand why your upset she did nothing for your son. This should have been expected based on her prior behavior. You should be more upset with your husband's attitude of acting like all of this is normal. If you need to stay outside a party what is the point of going? In addition he is there putting a computer together for her?
Also be glad she is not around your children as she is not a good example and why set them up to be abused or allow them to see there mother abused by there grandmother. I have to say this is your husband's fault. He is the one who needs to put a stop to her behavior. Sorry to say that by him going along with her unacceptable behavior she feels her son is OK with the way she treats you. He shows her and the world he has no respect for you. Have some respect for yourself and do not allow any man or woman to abuse you.
Might want to take a heavy pan and hit him in the head when he comes home. Might knock some sense into him. Good Luck.
2007-09-14 02:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband. He's your ace-in-the-Hole, Simply ignore her, have Christmas, Thanksgiving, Other holidays at home, don't invite the Monster-In-Law, and tell hubby that until he figures out her problem, you are not going to subject your son to that negativity. He'll come around, soon she'll be forced too.
2007-09-10 18:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Frznoooo_Sam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont go around her and dont let your son around her.. tell your husband why and if he cant control her than stay away.. if he whines about it .. tell him to go suck mommy nipples and leave him to boot .. the aprons strings still may be tied
2007-09-10 18:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by vis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why did she do this she holds the answer.
2007-09-10 18:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋