He is willing to take some natural Herbal therapies to bring his Libido down. His high sex drive and my low sex drive is making us fight all the time. What can we do?
2007-09-10 09:26:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Have him spend a bit more time alone in the bathroom and try to accommodate him a few times a week. Meet in the middle. Guys more generally have a higher sex drive due to higher levels of testosterone in the body. I wouldn't recommend him taking anything to slow it down, that doesn't sound too healthy. It will balance out in time, but it is most important to communicate with one another and to try and resolve the differences so both of you are happy. Try to work out a schedule of some sort for a few weeks and see how that goes it if works great, if not try something else. Sex is great, and better when 2 people care for each other, but it is a very minimal part of an overall relationship and that is where the focus should be at.
2007-09-10 09:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by jayydoggs 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Have you tought about taking natural herbal pills to increase libido? There is a pill that I have found called Woman’s Plus Total Balance Multi-Vitamin. Perhaps this will even out both of your sex drives and stop the fighting.
2007-09-11 07:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by sabri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really want to interfere with his libido. Sex doesn't have to be only about intercourse, you know. Anything that makes him ejaculate will satisfy him. You can masturbate him frequently, or if you're willing, give him oral sex, or allow him to have anal sex. If you want to speed things up, put your finger in his rectum while you're masturbating him, that should bring him to orgasm right away.
2007-09-10 09:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy.. his main instinct is to plow ''now with a farm tool''. and, inside he doesnt want to take libido down pills :-P
2007-09-10 11:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by {SA}Killshot{PP} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do anything about your bf sex drive instead take something for yourself then sex him to death. lol
2007-09-10 10:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by o_o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he's ateen, younger guys have a harder time controlling their desires. really not much you can do except agree that you both have different levels of physical desire and he'll need to respect your boundries and limits
2007-09-10 10:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
having mismatched sex drives can be a big problem.....tell him to whack it to porn or dump him and tell him to find someone who has a higher sex drive
2007-09-10 20:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by GH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are married.
There is not a darn thing you can do.
the horn dog needs to get a grip.
2007-09-10 09:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by uisignorant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snowie, thought about oral sex. or toss hime a "girlie" mag and some vaseline.
2007-09-10 10:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfirez2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy every guy is horney that is all that some men think about is having sex or being horney
2007-09-10 10:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋