i love my older sister but she is the one that the family always has to do things for in order for her to be involved. which is okay but at a time where worries are to be to a minimum, why should i ask her to be in my wedding if she can not afford it.
i thought it would be rude to ask her to be in it if she cant afford it but my mom says im wrong for not asking.
so i ask her to be fair, she says she wants to be in it and i told her, gotta pay for your dress, shoes, hair, nails and all that plus travel when we get with the other girls. my wedding is outta town and she has 5 kids and her and my mom are mad cuz i wont have her children running around a mansion.
NO KIDS goes for everyone. then she already missed 2 get togethers with the others because she couldnt get there or find a sitter.
is it time to be replaced or do i let family ruin something so sweet and peaceful with her personal issues. my close friends are begging to have her spot, is it me? or is this not fair at all?
2007-09-10 08:55:06 · 1 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I bet you wished you hadn't gotten pressured into having her in the wedding party by your mom.
Since you have asked her, you are pretty much committed to keeping it that way. The only thing I can think of is asking her if she is still willing to carry on with the honor of being in the Wedding Party. Ask her if she is going to be able to afford it and see what she says.
If you ask her to step down, you will only cause more heart ache than you can imagine. And that will cause the wedding to turn ugly.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-10 16:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋