I now date only Black women, I find I can date better educated, more pretty woman with much more to offer than woman of my own race(white) Do you black women find more white men asking you out?
2007-09-10 08:38:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Oh my, yes. Frat boys, chubby business men, old Jews, you name it, they're asking. In all honesty, we need to be asked. There are 4 black women to every black man. Half of our men are somewhere in the judicial system- so that's 8/1 of men who are potentially available. Hip hop music reflects this inbalance in many songs about being with many women. In turn, many men who are influenced by these songs expect to have an array of women. On top of it all, some of our men aren't the least interested. Ask away, but I warn you that the culture (generally speaking of course. I realize I've made generalizations here.) hasn't prepared us to seek relationships elsewhere, but to scramble in competition or consider being alone. You can not only provide a lady with a nice date, but help open a possibility to her. Not to mention the good influence it will be on those in the public who see you treating her well.
2007-09-10 08:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lovey 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, no. I still think that the dating scene for black women and white men is scarce. Some of my friends (white male) say they are too afraid to ask black women for a date. They have to 'know' beforehand if the women will even consider dating opposite races. In other words, a friend would have to make the 'hook up' possible. In the world that I travel in, it happens all the time - I am an entertainer and therefore you see black men/white women/black women/white men more often.
I often wonder what 'attracts' a white man to a black woman in the first place. I don't know that I'd be comfortable with it. I'd be afraid that no matter what - it would be difficult to get pass the 'color of skin'. I know it's silly - but I don't know how easy it would be to let your guard completely down.
I have gone out in groups with mixed couples, etc. and I have been asked out by one very beautiful white man - but ironically, we talked on the phone for a month and he led me to believe he was black - his speech was very much disconcerning. Finally, when we were to meet - he admiited he had been adopted by a black family and all he knew was black people. I was shocked - but even more when I met him. He was beautiful - tall, strong, a Christian man with values (other than his not being open). He thought I would not want to see him. But I could not submit to the relationship.
Great question -
2007-09-10 08:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I actually do see it more, my first boyfriend (my freshman year in high school) was white. However I don't view my fellow black men as inferior, I say that because whenever we would go out, we would catch the hardest time from black men who would act as if I was abandoning my race or dating a white guy because I was bitter about black men. This wasn't the case, I dated him because he was a very nice person and liked me for me. You shouldn't cancel out your race though, you might just be surprised to find the love of your life is of your race.
2007-09-10 08:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend of mine, that every time we go to a party white men hit on her. She is black and she likes white men. Some women are stepping outside the race.
2007-09-10 08:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by reelperspectiv 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have to admit that I do.. I am married so I can't date no one but if I was not married I would date white men. My husband now is hispanic.. I love black men however, I date out of my race also...
2007-09-10 08:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by Vicky 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I do. I think it's great that black women and white men are now starting to date.
2007-09-11 03:10:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bore sum 1 else w/ ur question! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not a whole lot of white men have asked me out. But what I do know is that I see a lot of white guys checkin' me out, and I think they like what they see. Perhaps they are too afraid to ask me out, or they are scared of rejection. I have only dated one white guy in the passed, but he was the only one who was persistent. If you like black women I say go ahead and get with that special lady!
2007-09-10 08:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bee Biscuits 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I myself have always dated white men.
I have been asked out by a lot of white men but mostly Euorpean because they have absolutely no hang-ups with it at all.
Americans are filled with hatred against blacks as you can plainly see but they'd never have the guts to say anything to your face about it.
2007-09-10 08:48:13 · answer #8 · answered by ShrunkenFro™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey i think that its great when you can step out of the norm and go for other races. I do find that alot of white men approach me. i will date any race as long as they treat me like i deserve to be treated
2007-09-10 10:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by sexyred1129 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I find myself married to one. Race has never been an issue to me. I found happiness in the nicest guy in the world, and he happened to be white.
2007-09-10 10:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Qwerty™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋