i shared my house with my man and all 6 of his closest friends on a daily basis and when i complained over and over it never made too much of a difference.
well my bestfriend introduced me to 3 of her coworkers that she would go and have drinks with and i joined them a couple of times. soon 1 guy started to tell me how it was a shame that i spend everyother day with them instead of home. from that day, he started to tell me all the things he would love to do with me and to me. i never took him up on it but he kept going.
when he brought a new car, he came to my house alone and tried to take me out and my bf got mad and broke up with me because he can tell i like him and he likes me. being involved with him is what made me not persue any other offers but he broke up with me and moved in with his best friend. i later being single, took him up on his offer to show me a night a will never forget. he did, but now after getting back with my bf,he calls that cheating.WTF? i wouldnt have!
2007-09-10 08:05:33 · 4 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since you two had broken up, it is not cheating. He is just jealous and should learn from his mistakes. If he didn't spend so much time with his friends and made you feel special, you probably would not have accepted the attention from the other guy.
2007-09-10 08:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women have been know to play men to so call "break up" with them just so they can go off and bang some other guy. I don't know if you are one of these manipulative types, but it could be that is how your BF sees you.
And for those who say "You were on a break". You banged the very same guy that caused your "break". The more I think about it the more I say you played your BF. Hope you enjoyed the sex, because now your BF knows where he stands (at the line of the line). You going to have another break any time soon for someone else?
2007-09-10 15:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has no right passing any judgement on you. He should have realized what he had when it was there for him and everybody else to see. He chose to ignore you, to push you away and he even moved in with someone else, so what is he complaining of? did he want to have his cake and eat it?
Well, hopefully he'll have learnt his lesson, that's all he needs to know!
Don't you ever let him take you for granted again. Anyway, I guess now he knows that should he be that silly there'll be a queue to snatch you away!
2007-09-10 15:26:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were on a break so that is not cheating. Tell him to drop it because it is not helping your NEW relationship together....
2007-09-10 15:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋