Ok, I have a ffriend whom I've known and loved for over 10 years. We have been especially close in the past 6 years. Around the first of the year I was really concerned about my friend b/c she was very depressed. She started to act happier in some ways in April, but she was also acting irratically and distancing herself from other friends and family. After a very out of character attack on me, my husband confided that he knew they had started using crystal-meth a few months earlier and my other friend (who is family to the first) was absolutely convinced of drugs b/c of other behaviors and gossip within the family. Now, my friend will not answer my calls and I've heard has called me a rumor starter for talking to anyone about it. I miss my friend, and don't understand why I'm the bad guy for finding out the big bad secret. I want to get our friendship back on track but don't know how to approach her. I don't want to loose a 10 yr. friendship like this.
2007-09-10 07:47:27 · 2 answers · asked by brookebjpl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When my husband told the truth to me, after I was attacked by my friend. It got back to my friend and her husband started accusing mine of doing the drugs too. I know that's not the case since when he found out about the issue, he stopped initiating any contact with them. So, my added concern is that my husband now hates his former baest friend, my friends husband....because he lied about him to make himself look better, I guess. How can I get my friend back if my husband won't forgive his? Help Please!
2007-09-10 07:49:23 · update #1
Well my dear my heart goes out to you . I know a lot about drugs because a close relative to me is in drugs Yes their behavior change completely . And yes they distance themself from their friends and their family .because there not part of our world anymore . They feel understand by those who are doing drugs . And also paranoia often accompanied them during their trip >Unfortunately theres not much you can do to help them except telling your friend this ,,,I love you a lot and when . you will be ready for a better life I am there for you Another advice , ,,I she visits you hide your money and watch your valuables Also drugs addict become perfect liars and very manupilative , Don't take her verbal attact personel She will try to make you feel guilty , Its a game they play with everybody and that what shes doing right now by not returning your calls In the meantime take care of yourself and your husband Both of you deserve love and peace ....From Lala
2007-09-10 14:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a heartfelt letter...it worked for me ;)
2007-09-10 14:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋