I'm 16 years old and I'm learning how to drive (well...sorta). I'm a Christian and go to an Assemblies of God church. I like to play softball (I'm the catcher) and clean bathrooms (toilets are my speciality). Anyway...I have a brother (18), and a sister (20). A mom and a dad (still married). I have some friends. There's my softball friends who I see spring and fall (and some I keep in touch with over winter and summer through myspace) and my church friends (who I see twice a week at church). I don't have a "best" friend, though. I LOVE ALGEBRA. i listen to country and christian music. When I grow up I want to be a stay-at-home mom. I want to have 4-6 kids and adopt 4-6 kids. I also want to live in Tennessee on a small farm. I'm home-schooled, and I dual-enroll at the community college. I'm most likely gonna major in agriculture or child development or something like that. Don't know yet. I've never had a boyfriend before......
2007-09-10 07:40:14 · 20 answers · asked by :) 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
even though at the moment one of my guy friends that i like A LOT has admitted to me that he likes me too. but neither of us are allowed to date so we're just friends. I guess you could say I'm not the prettiest flower in the meadow. And I have a little extra tummy fat (I'm not very skinny). I love to laugh. I like youtube.com, and myspace, and yahoo answers, and I want a minivan (Chrysler Town and Country) when I'm old enough to buy a car. Why? I don't know. It's kind of creepy even to me. I have strong morals. I won't smoke or drink or have sex until I'm married. and I'm very shy. i hate talking on the phone or to people i don't know. giving speeches? foreget it. i like to dance and act (as long as i don't have a speaking part). and that's about it. how come people always think i'm really weird? do you think I'm weird or a freak?
2007-09-10 07:40:38 · update #1
Yes, I think you're weird but, then again, I think anyone that wants to have a lot of kids is weird.
No, I don't think you're a freak but I don't think you and I are defining the term the same way. To me, it's a GOOD thing to be a freak.
2007-09-10 07:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No - don't worry about it. You've got friends and a loving family. Try to exercise a bit more if you are concerned about the tummy fat - but always check with your doctor on weight issues.
IDK why people call you weird - I've met some people who know quite early in life what they want to do and others that don't. Just try to keep your mind open to other possibilities - you never know - what God has in mind for you may be a bit different.
Just be a good daughter sister and friend, study hard and you'll be cool.
2007-09-10 07:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you have soung goals girl. There are so many lost youth these days. They don't know what they want and fall in with the wrong crowd and submit to peer pressure and make the wrong choices. Sounds like you have some awesome life plans and a great head on your shoulders. Keep up with the education and continue to be you. You rock. Best of luck!
2007-09-10 07:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by F.A.Q. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is don't care what other people think. Other people are just that...OTHER PEOPLE...they don't know you, they don't care about you, they're just saying that stuff to cover up what they find wrong with themselves so they don't have to think about it.
You're nothing like me. I went to public school, I don't go to chruch, live on a farm but I hate it, and cleaning *gags*. I love English, I don't want any kids, I want to live in the city/town, I'm majoring in Graphic Design/Graphic Arts, but I don't think you're a freak.
You're different than me and I think if you're happy with your life then go with it. Let other people think what they want to think. The only person that can really call you a freak and mean it is you. If you think you're a freak...that means you hate the way you are and you want to be more like everyone else.
2007-09-10 07:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, "Dalice"! (Beautiful name! I really love it! I just don't know who that is!...)
Nice resume... Honey, I don't label anyone! Certainly not a "freak". And, if I did, I wouldn't label you one. The "like to clean bathrooms" part... really? Cuz I've got one... do you hire out for this? Sounds like your label ought to be "over-achiever".
You sound like a talented, bright, outgoing teenager...and since I'm guessing your know your peers, this may make you slightly different from some of them...the "norm" about now is sullen, surly, and NOT! friendly or outgoing..I was a teenager once, and I raised a couple...
hormones will make you crazy... it passes, I wouldn't be a teenager again for anything..not even to look that good again...
You sound as though you may be "older" than your years...That's going to even out/up shortly... your peers will catch up and you won't! feel like an outsider... You keep doing what you're doing! Sounds to me like you're on the right track!
Good luck with learning to drive..it's kind of... all of a sudden it will "click!" and you'll be good at it! I promise.
Honey, the "boyfriends" will come...you'll be beating them off with sticks! They just have to mature some to catch up with you..you stay "you". It'll be the best way to know who you'll want.
Ah..., just this one thing... I believe you believe the 4-6 kids..(my daughter-in-law wanted 8..scared the daylights out of my son..) I kept telling him "wait til she has two in diapers, perspective will change!" (They have 2 kids, a boy and a girl.) I'm just saying, with experience comes change... Have a great life, and welcome to ANSWERS! }:>
Oh. FYI... P&S has some nasty trolls; don't take them personally. (They are intellectually challenged...)Y!A is actually doing something to make them less prevalent. (Just so you know, and don't get discouraged...)
2007-09-10 08:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ja'aj };> 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound weird at all....Your life actually sounds pretty great! I would LOVE to live on a small farm too! You sound like you know what you want, and you're going for it....that's good. Anyway, it doesn't matter how others label you....You're the only one living your life....so do whatever makes you happy. Love your family and love your life....Best of luck!
2007-09-10 08:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT a freak! You are on the right track and living the way you should. Keep it up, you will be rewarded in the long run! The only thing I would suggest is work on your shyness, be confident that you are a great person.
2007-09-10 07:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kanon'sMomma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no. you are not weird or a freak. its commendable that you know what you want to do with your life and you are taking the steps to make it happen. you are a good kid with attainable dreams. keep doing what you're doing. tennessee is nice, i live here. good luck to you. it doesnt matter what people think of you as long as you are happy.
2007-09-10 07:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope. just a small town girl. i live in the city, and i have similar (although not exact) likes as you..and i'm not accepted to want 8 kids! (so i'll probably settle with 2). go for your dream, lucky girl.
p.s. i LOVE algebra too.
2007-09-10 07:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by alcmena 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember: There are no weird people. Some people just require a little more understanding than others ;)
Go on with your bad self.
2007-09-10 09:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Dalice Nelson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋