i have been best friends with this girl for over 10 years me her and her husband met at the same time we have all been friends forever she is like a sister to me and he is like a brother just recently i moved in to the same apartment complex as them so we see alot more of each other some times him and i hang out to geather alone ( ex. if she is at work and our kids want to play togeather etc.) as i said before i call him my bro and he calls me his sis but recently when ever we are alone togeather all he wants to talk about is sex and how he is unhappy with his sex life and all the things he wants to do and stuff i dont know if hes flirting with me or just bringing it up hoping that i will say something to my bff but if she finds out that hes talking to me about sex at all i think she will be pissed what do think and what should i do?????
2007-09-10 07:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by @!#$%^ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it kills me because i love them like family i mean we where bolth pregnant at the same time went to the same doctor and everything they know everything about me i feel like mabee i should just remove my self from the equasion but i dont want them wondering why i dont come around any more plus are kids are inseperable what should i do
sorry about the misspellings
2007-09-10 07:50:13 · update #1
i have told him that he should talk to her and i offered him tips to spice things up between the two of them ive even offered to take their son for the weekend so he could be alone with her to straighten things out and have some one on one time but he still talkes about it
2007-09-10 08:15:31 · update #2
I would not tell her , since it just talk as of right now , But I do think that you need to put him back in his place as a Friend , Let him know how you feel , and that you would like him not to talk to you about his ..Sex life .. you are only his Friends and nothing more then that . Some times Men do things like , it like 1st base thing I know it Childish But we are talking about MEN , This might be his way of opening a Door that you do not want to Open .. so Slam it shut ... Let him know that you are not Interested ..even if you are ..that is your BFF and you just do not do that 2 your BFF !
Good Luck ... I would not tell Your his wife you BFF .. Unless he Tries to move it from talk to touch ......... It just might hurt you Friendship and I sure you do not want that !
2007-09-10 08:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by della 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. if this guy can flirt with you that plenty understanding which you're he's spouse BFF, meaning he has been flirting with othergirls even cheating on her. i comprehend it hard yet you need to tell your BFF. some adult adult males are pigs, they deserve it. sure he will hate you, sure you may no longer be waiting to come again over anymore. yet yet, you forestall your BFF from getting harm in a while donw the line. perhaps all this guy choose is a wakre up call. opportunities as quickly as that comes up, and he's confronted approximately it, no longer purely he will end flirting with you yet he additionally will relised and end flirting with different glrs. sure, do it. do the perfect element cuase you like and care approximately your BFF.
2016-11-14 20:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is flirting to me....I'm a guy too and i know if a girl i liked lived that close to me and i was alone with her a lot i would be fantasizing about her too....i bet he is hot for you and wants to get you naked..i bet also that he goes home and jacksoff after talking the sex talk to you..he is getting off just being alone with you..not all guys are like this but it sure sounds like he is one..so its up to you how you want to handle this no matter you will be the bad guy with him or you will be the bad guy to her....even if you tell her cause she is your friend she will think that you had something to do with leading him on....one thing you could do is have some alone time with her and sort of see how her stories line up with his...she may even be wanting you to join them for a 3some.....she may have the fantasy of having her man with another woman....lots of things to this question...good luck keep us posted.
2007-09-10 07:41:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is talking about his sex life to you because you are his wife's bff and maybe you would tell her about it. If that's the case, he went to the wrong person to tell it to but either way, you should maybe help your friend out and suggest some ideas and dates. Also, try to avoid him if he keeps coming to you. And comfront him about how you are not comfortable talking in private, especially about sex.
2007-09-10 08:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men do this????? Ugh!!
If you tell her, she's going to be mad. I think he IS coming on to you. I'd tell him that you don't want to hear about his sxual fanties, sex life, etc. It makes you uncomfortable and it's inappropriate. If you are all close, it seems that you could be very straight forward with it and not have any backlash from your comments.
2007-09-10 07:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell her and tell her now cause she needs to know that this crap is going on behind her back I mean how would you feel if no one told you ? good luck and I hope all works out alright .
2007-09-10 07:40:24 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her... he needs a smack in the mouth!!!
unless you are interested and want to go for it...
ask her about a 3sum... :D
2007-09-10 07:33:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋