I am concerned because my new husband told me after we were married that absolutely forbids me to wear a bra when I am away from work. A part of me wants to and feels like I should do this him. Another part says I am 35-C and at 31 am concerned that my breasts will sag from the lack of support. Fortunately, I have not yet seen any evidence of that as I have remained firm. Sometimes, other women give a dirty look if my dress is only slightly low cut. I don't flop. I just bounce slightly like my husband wants. What should I do?
2007-09-10 05:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by Alice W. 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Wear a bra.
2007-09-10 06:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is perfectly acceptable and more healthy to go with out a bra. The muscle tissue supporting the breast will actually get strong from not wearing a bra, and your breast will become more firm.
Cancer rates skyrocket from wearing a bra for more than 12 hours a day.
See goingbraless.com for more info and and advice on clothing, health issues and confidence issues.
2007-09-11 09:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by paul 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'm a male and love nice breast like you have and but to keep them nice, firm, and from sagging you should wear a bra most of the time. He way off, he should just be very happy to see you pull it off at night so then he could love on them in private. I know I would.
2007-09-10 13:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by H F 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have been going braless for years. my breasts do not sag and I have had 4 children who I breastfed. I do wear bras when it is necessary like a school function or an appointment, but around home I do not want to be constricted and have a back ache.
2007-09-10 13:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Moonshine 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You're too big to go braless at 35C. Not only will you bounce, but you'll be seen by other men who will leer at you and other women will be disgusted by you.
Your breasts WILL also sag sooner than normal.
Your new husband is a jerk. Get rid of him. He is a sexist pig.
2007-09-10 13:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tara662 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
First off your husband is an a-s-s. YOU decide what to do with your body not him. Second, it is a matter of muscle tone. If you maintain muscle tone then you don´t havce a problem. But there are 2 things in this universe that you can do nothing about - age and gravity. Good luck.
2007-09-10 13:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is a jerk. Why do you allow him to forbid you to wear a bra? Why would you even allow him to use the word forbid? I'd knock my husbands front teeth out if he tried to treat me as yours treats you. Is he wanting other men to watch your breasts "bounce" too? What a nutcase. Your breasts will start to sag and eventually end up at your ankles! You are over 30 for crying out loud. Tell your husband you forbid him to to wear underwear. His testicles must slap and rub together from now on!
2007-09-10 13:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
No problem letting them bounce occasionally. But, wearing the bra will help keep them in place for the future.
2007-09-10 13:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Do what you feel comfortable doing. Your husband as no idea what it feels like to have boobs so I don't think he should have much of a say. I feel you should wear a bra for support.
2007-09-10 13:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
seriously wear a bra.
you want to keep them nice.
other ladies are probably jealous that they do have what you do. Do what you think is best for you.
not what your husband wants.
2007-09-10 14:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lena Face 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋