2007-09-10 05:32:14 · 11 answers · asked by gobraghomagh 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Lovecraft and SemperFi must be balding, overweight losers with chips on their shoulders...
2007-09-10 05:45:50 · update #1
Men's TV shows and commercials tell them the lie that they can be as fat, ugly, and disgusting as they want and hot babes will still go for them. Women, however, always have to be slim, pretty, and vacant to be worthy of attention.
Men would do better to take some care of themselves and have some manners if they want women to be attracted to them.
2007-09-10 05:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by KC 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋
well, everyone has a different definition of what sexy is. For instance I personally don't like my guys to be really skinny or really overweight... just in the middle. If you're balding, perhaps just brave it and go totally bald. It will look cleaner and nicer than having patches (my stepdad went through the same thing) and plenty of women like bald men. For dress you don't always have to dress stylishly. Even jeans and a t-shirt look perfectly fine. Just make sure the clothes you wear are clean. Perhaps try a new cologne. I don't know one woman who doesn't love a man who smells good. Or even just a nice aftershave is fine as well. Whatever is best for you. As far as your weight... I think if you are comfortable with yourself then that should be well enough. However, if your health is at risk that is when I would advise to lose weight. People should like you for who you are as a person more than your looks. Also, a very big thing for many women is confidence. If you are confident in yourself it will show. Even if you're faking it a little bit, who cares. I wish you the best of luck finding a special lady who makes you happy :)
2016-03-18 03:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there's a difference between how you perceive them and how they perceive themselves.
My own example; I'm 47 yrs old but I've aged perhaps a bit better than average, no gray, thinning on top (but no where near bald) still trim and muscular. The picture of myself I carry in my mind is about 25 to 30 yrs old. But when I look in the mirror I can see that I'm no 30 yr old. The idea is laughable.
When a, say, 49 yr old, balding, pudgy type approaches you he's not seeing the (relatively) old, bald, pudge. He's seeing himself 25 yrs ago.
But they're usually not trying to be pervs or anything like that. There simply is a real difference in perception and they either don't realize it or they haven't come to proper terms with it.
2007-09-10 05:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by Robert K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because many find themselves alone again after divorce or some other occurrence. They didn't always look like that. Bald, overweight, and middle-aged men need love, too, and want female companionship. Is that so wrong?
2007-09-10 05:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia H 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only handsome men should approach women only they are humans with feelings only also should the beautiful and handsome have rights only to love why shouldn't bald man or a heavy woman approach men and women to love also
2007-09-10 05:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They can approach women. Every woman is not shallow.
Actuall, I am not bald or overweight. I am a former marine with a full head of Dreadlocks. I am also educated and polite. Those are traits you would do well to attain young lady. Furthermore if I were to lose my hair, I wouldn't lose my knowledge or respect of others. Please grow up soon!
2007-09-10 05:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because they're experienced enough to know which women fall for the right approach, a few lies, a $20 bill, etc. The looser women are approached so often they can pick & choose more, but no man wants to marry them.
2007-09-10 06:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mr.Wise 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do you think they should'nt, maybe your a little bit shallow!
2007-09-12 00:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the young deserve love?
2007-09-10 05:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They don't just "think" , many do- - - and make out quite well .
2007-09-10 05:38:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋