I was with a woman for two weeks and one day we had for first time sex and we didnt use a condom... Now she is two months pregnant... I have no problem with this because I really love her and so she does. I think she is my other half and we will soon marry but... since she is pregnant can we still have sex? If not anal what other ways are to pleasure sexually ourselves?
2007-09-10 04:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
so the baby is not in danger?
2007-09-10 04:59:48 · update #1
you can still have sex before 4-5 months. some couples still do it even 7-8 months. try getting blow jobs or any petting if you want your baby to be safe.
2007-09-10 05:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still have sex while she's pregnant, you're not going to hurt the baby. But make sure she's ok too. I was experiencing a lot of cramping and pressure around 10-14 weeks so sex wasn't my top priority. Also, morning sickness can factor in as women don't tend to feel very into sex when they're vomiting all the time. Morning sickness gets better in the second trimester and most women feel energized and want sex all the time so be prepared to give it up whenever she's in the mood, lol. And unless she likes anal a lot I would stay away from it. Especially don't have vaginal intercourse after anal because you can get bacteria in places it doesn't need to be.
2007-09-10 12:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Cinderelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can have as much vaginal sex as your bodyies can handle up until the point when her doctor says no more. I am on my second pregnancy and the doctor has never told me to not have sex. to tell you the truth he even told me last friday to have sex that way it helps with putting me into labor because he thinks that he may have to induce my labor but he really doesn't want to do that. Having sex will at no point harm or put the baby in danger unless she has a high risk pregnancy and if she does that is when I would ask the doctor if it is ok, but otherwise go ahead and have sex it will not hurt the baby. later in the pragnancy it may cause her some discomfort but just try different possitions when that time comes.
2007-09-10 13:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby is not in danger. It is safe to have sex (for most women that is) un until delivery or the waters break. If she is "high risk" or has had past issues with early miscarriage, you may want to consulty with her doctor.
The issue you may have is the desire for sex. Most women have a major drop in labito the first 3 months. Once she is in the 4th month her feelings will change and she won't feel so crappy. The you have issue towards the end just to to comfort during the sex act. Positions can be limited.
2007-09-10 12:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by buggerhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can have any kind of sexual activities while she is pregnant without harming the baby. All the way until she delivers. It all depends on how comfortable she is. You shouldn't run into a problem until the last month. It may get a little complicated with her big belly. That's where doggie style comes in!
2007-09-10 12:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by ~Kim~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is healthy and natural while pregnant. It wont hurt the baby, although it can be uncomfortable for her as she gets farther along. In fact, the closer to delivery she gets and the lower the baby moves into the birth canal the more uncomfortable it will be for you.
But yeah, you're fine to keep having sex. Anal is actually horrible for anyone, especially pregnant woman, as they get hemorrhoids and messing with that area makes them much much worse.
2007-09-10 12:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Having sex wile pregnant is not a problem, the hormones released wile you have sex are happy ones and help your girlfriend with her pregnancy, near to the birth time having sex is a very helpful thing to do as it releases endorphins to start labor making it easier on her specially if she is over-sue on her delivery date.
best of luck to both and enjoy.
2007-09-10 12:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by mika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problems at all with having sex during pregnancy. You will not 'hit the baby' or 'hurt the baby' in any way. She might not want it as much, but some actually want it more.
Congrats!!!
2007-09-10 12:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by paganmom26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have sex with a pregnant woman for as long as doctor oks it. If she's high risk or having bleeding or pain with sex than no.
2007-09-10 12:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to have sex during pregnancy- IF she has any pains or any bleeding then I'd consult your doctor otherwise its at no danger to the baby! :-) Congratulations to you!!
2007-09-10 12:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by 04/12/2008 :) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋