how do you know your husbands been cheating on you?

Answer 1

Is he spending more time away than usual? Being overly affectionate? Maybe ignoring you? Has he bought you flowers or other gifts that he never would have done before? Any faint smells of perfume on his clothes or on him?
There are so mant signs that you can look for, but, if you feel it in your heart, youre probably right.
Would you feel comfortable confronting him about it? Thats always the thing I do, just get things right out in the open.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Mainly, you'll know something is wrong because it will feel different between you. You will never know if he's actually cheating unless you catch him or he tells you, but focus on the feeling that is between you, is it worth keeping? Is it loving and warm and close? If not, who cares where he gets his, you should be leaving anyway. DONT SNOOP, you dont need to. If you have lost trust, or have doubts, talk to him first. If you dont, and you are wrong you will have damaged the relationship beyond repair anyway. The distance will never heal. YOU do the decent thing, then even if he is not you will stay a good person and can respect yourself.

Answer 3

Did you ask yourself why, if he is cheating, would be cheating? I'm not saying this to accuse you of anything but usually if you can get him to talk you'll get to the bottom of what's causing the behaviour he's had to make feel that he maybe cheating.

Answer 4

Most times you just "know" - there are many signs to look for, new clothes, new cologne, new underwear, new hairstyle, late hours, unexplained disappearances, hang up phone calls, lack of money, indifference to you and/or children OR on the flip side, flowers for you or gifts for no reason, except to ease his guilty conscience - but if you think he is cheating, he probably is.

Answer 5

Women have intuition....you have that gut feeling that something isn't right with your relationship. Look for some of the signs...he is emotionally withdrawing from you....sex with you has changed...either he wants less or sometimes more to make up for the guilt.....has changed his looks.....leaves for work at a different time....stays later then usual....has unknown numbers showing up on his phone...hang up calls...these are just a few.

Answer 6

You know when you start to feel that he is pulling away from you a little, and he doesnt care to show afection like he used to, or maybe he spends time on his cell phone at home but has to go outside to take the call. Look through his wallet, his pockets, or maybe browse his cell phone for text massages or recent calls

Answer 7

Phone calls at certain times of the day. Coming home late could be a clue. Doesnt want to have sex as much with you anymore. Any of those 3 could be some strong clues. If you are having thoughts , talk to him.

Answer 8

Does he treat you differently? Most men tend to act a little differently when they are cheating. Does he go to the bathroom as soon as he gets home? does he leave unannounced or come back late?

Answer 9

Hm, just look for clues I guess. Is he staying out late? Get suspicous phone calls? Seems distant from you? No longer interested in sex with you? Suspicious bank charges? Maybe you could hire a private investigator?

Answer 10

You don't! it's all about trust.

If you are accusing him and not getting along with each other then you will succeed in sending him into the arms of another woman. Theres plenty of them out there.

But if you really think he is and you want to know for sure then you will have to follow him.

Hope all ends well for you.