If I go over budget, which is usually once a month, he insists on spanking me, bare bottom for like 5 minutes. I just go along with it, but it does hurt.
2007-09-10 03:57:14 · 36 answers · asked by susan d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're going over budget every month, either he's not giving you enough money or you rather enjoy the spankings. Especially if the sex afterwards is good....
2007-09-10 21:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's something that you're comfortable with then, yes. However, if you're not comfortable with it then no. (Great advice, huh?) You'll get people on here that will call you a freak or whatever. Forget them. If it's something that you and your husband want to do then why wouldn't it be o.k.? I'm assuming the spanking isn't a real punishment, but going over budget is just an excuse for the spanking.
2007-09-10 04:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Odie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Pea I am thinking it is a sexual spank right. I mean if it is sexual that is cool, I love that type of stuff but if it is a regular spank like a child would get that is really weird. Try not to go over the budget if that is the case. Good luck!
2007-09-10 04:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by b n real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you forgive your mother? Yes, because it is the right thing to do for you. It's not good to burden down the heart with old grudges no matter how cruel someone may have been to you. What you should be asking yourself is why, after everything she's done, do you continue to go back for more? The important thing for you to do is to protect your child. If your mother is as toxic as you say she is, it's only a matter of time before she does something to your daughter and that's unacceptable. Suggest to your mother that she get counseling and let her know that if she doesn't change, then she won't be seeing much of you anymore. If you want your daughter to continue seeing her, fine but only under heavily supervised conditions. And if you can't bring yourself to nix her completely from your life, deal with her from a distance. And stop letting her manipulate and take advantage of you.
2016-05-21 02:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok if you like it in one way or another. You don't seem to mind it since you have the option of going along with it. Just ask him not to spank so hard. But if it makes you feel like belittled I'd ask him not to.
2007-09-10 06:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Brook E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gets to spank you when you do something wrong? Wow. I'm telling my wife about this one! The question is: Do you overspend on purpose? And what happens after the spanking?
2007-09-10 07:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by Blade_III 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, unless the spanking is consensual and you guys are doing it because you both enjoy it.
And you should be responsible enough not to spend too much money!
2007-09-13 17:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by FMEXICO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a kinky sex (s&m, master, slave) type thing then I would tell him to take it easy. But if not your just married to an asshole and there is no way in hell you should be on here asking what to do. You should be on her finding out the best way to break someone's hand. He sounds like a control freak who has mistaking thought he could treat his wife, partner, soul mate in any way he deems fit. You should run for the hills (with all his money).
2007-09-10 04:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Camaro G 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What ever floats your boat. Try staying in your budget and see if he sulks cause he has no excuse to spank.
Does he do something you get to spank him for or are you holding it all back till you get the gun or the rat poison for him?
2007-09-10 04:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by YaWhoDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my wife, I'd take you shopping, help you spend too much, then we could both go home and spank each other.
We'd probably go bankrupt in no time, and you'd have a big red fanny....
2007-09-10 04:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by elm1717 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋